rude women?

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I like to hear all you people thoughts on this.
for guys who are approaching and trying to get a date
and for ladies who are trying to make friends with a woman,
when does a woman become rude.
in other words when do you people define how a woman is rude vs woman who is not rude but maybe shy or not interest.
can a women be both shy and rude. or not interest and rude. when do you draw the line.
all are welcome

(stuck up,snobby,''bitchy'' can also be use)

To be clear, 'not interested' is not always the same thing as rude.

Not interested signals:
-talking about a boyfriend
-saying she needs to get back to her group/meal/drink/conversation with another person
-saying she is usually busy (if you are trying to nail down future plans)
-saying she prefers to be by herself (if you are trying to nail down future plans)
-turning down a drink
-saying she just got somewhere (like a bar) and is going to check things out, and "might catch up with you later"
-looking over your shoulder to scan the crowd, repetitively

Those are the most basic and polite ways to signal disinterest. Any of those done rudely or other. more aggressive, shove-offs are probably rude.

I pretty much define rude behavior as all the same regardless of gender. But I gather this is another thread from you where you just want to talk about women as if we are a different species. Maybe this is why you have trouble with dating. :/

oh,no not this again. good ol meems always taking a cheap shot.. dang you ladies just let it go. so I don't get date, so get over it.
I don't mind. calm down and enjoy the new years, relax you have less stress, maybe count to ten that can help.

lol.

You tell 'em.

why is it important to determine if a person rejecting you is actually rude (if she is a stranger)? i mean, she rejected you and you don't know each other, so it's not like there is something to repair in the relationship.

can you tell when men are being rude?

Some people just lack perspective when they try to date someone. Sometimes "rude" is just "polite indifference", sometimes "rude" is "please, leave me alone once for all", and yes, sometimes "rude" is being mean with someone, but a lot of people consider that all the rejections are rude because, well, it's a rejection after all, they don't like it and feel resentment. Some people even despise the person who rejected them.

About the rudeness on women... ehm, of course some women are mean, as some men are mean too, some men can be very rude if you try to talk to them, you never tried to date a man so you don't know.

But don't forget that a lot of "rudeness" comes as the result of someone trying your patience. Some men think that if they are rejected in a nice way that means that they have some possibilities with the girl. Some women reject the same guy three times in a nice way, but some of those guys insist, so they have to reject him again in a very rude way to make him understand, so then he gets frustrated and says she is a ****. There are men out there that are desperately persistent and they can't understand a "no".

when men are rude. when they go ''yo, get over here and give me a kiss'' that's rude. or if may ask out a woman and she say no and the man
insults here, that's rude.

why is it important? this is not about be me. Like to hear how other would consider a women to be rude. when is the line drawn between rudness and not interest. everyone is different what might be rude to someone, may not be rude to someone else.

I know ladies men and married men (men who never had trouble in getting gf/partners in the past) who are the worst chauvinistic men I ever knew, way worse than billiscool in that regard, no ...his problem is something else.

what works for one person doesn't work for another. it doesn't work to try to find universal characteristics that are universally attractive or unattractive. if women are turned off by billiscool's treatment of women like a different species, that doesn't mean that they would dislike that characteristic in another man.

I don't know, I think every straight women like brad pitt. so, that kinda of universally attraction.

no, otherwise every man unlike him would be single.

No, I mean they find him attractive. I think alot, ofstraight women will find brad pitt attractive, doesn't mean they only find brad pitt attraction and no other man also. I think most straight men will find katy perry attractive but that don't mean men only like katy perry.
I find katy perry attractive but that don't mean, I can't find any other women attractive, either.
just because alot of people like hamburger don't mean they don't like carrots

/enters thread

*farts*

/leaves

there may not be such thing as universal but there a majority rule. The majority of women did vote for obama.
The majority of americans are christians. Majority of women prefer tall men.
like saying because a black guy voted for romney,therefore blacks are not univesral voter, when the vast majority of them (93%) voted for obama.
like people here saying ''I have a douchebag personality'' of why ''women dislike me'' when it's only the young,single women who don't get along with me. Like I said married women both old and young, and older single women get along with me, so the majority do get along with me
but because I don't get along with a certain population group, everyone just jumps and say ''Im must be a douchebag'' Ignoring the fact, That I do get along with other women.
I don't get along with teenager either, male and female. So am I douchebag because I can't get along with teenagers?

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