30 year old guy and 19-20 y.o women (the women I talk to)

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the vast majority of women I talk to and want to have a relationship with or a friendship with are
usually 19-21 year old and many of them go to the gym I go to.
and at coffee shops, too.

I met this one 19 year old at one of my adult exercise class. she was cool but I just got too busy.
I talk to another 19 year lifeguard and she cool, but then again, they change shift so much there.
Of course I get alot of young women that don't like talking to me.

for the last 2 years I been trying to start a friendship, and possible a relationship with a young woman
but mainly a friendship, but so far no young woman wants to hang out with me. (though there has been some
very nice ones)


and if I do get lucky and do find a young woman who does like me for either friendship or relationship, what can advice can you give.
I will be 30 on the 27th (I know my profile say 30, but Im close enough so it sound good)

I knew a girl who at 22 was dating a guy who was 30. It was cool.

Just go for it.

lol dude stop being creepy and go for 24-30 yr olds.

You've already asked the same question not too long ago.

What do 19-21 year lady like

I think this was the best advice from that thread.

You are aiming out of your age range bill, its time to face facts you are 30 its not really normal in society for girls to go out with guys 50% older than them. Id suggest 26-34 range for you to fish from.

go to student nights! in Uk thats usually midweek.

my advice stems from ALL your posts being about women - make your own dev #1. You sound like a man looking to hand over the keys to some random.

that age gap is nothing. Im 32 and 18 year olds still like me, but many of them are often annoying to be fair.

lets face it girls are more mature for there age that's one of the things that attracts them to older men

My sexual preferences havent altered at 33, i still would prefer the younger female.
Ill worry when i get to 40

Curious - are they supposed to alter as you get older? What causes it? Social prejudice? Peer pressure? (sex preferences not young girls )

I think it depends more on what you want from the relationship and on the individual person in question.

My Ex was 20, we started dating when she was 19, I'm 27, but I look like I'm about 21 or 22. She initially came across as extremely mature, but after she had begun instigating talk of marriage, she got scared and ran off with some one else. We had WAY more in common than she did with other 20 year olds, but thats because as she put it, we were both 'Old Souls'. in reality she was just an immature little girl. But i've known lots of other girls who got married at 18 or 19 or 20 and are exactly my ex's opposite. It really depends on the person as an individual rather than as a variable or factor you can simply plug into a standard equation..