There's a girl I know, were in some type of relationship, and we've had sex a bunch of times over the past few weeks. I'm not saying any of this to brag but to let those of you who are loathing your own loneliness to not give up. I had a lot of self defeating views and self perceptions that really did keep me single and miserable for a long time. When I gave up on those views and stopped carring so much about being lonely, then things started to happen for me. Be the hero in your own narrative, and do something else each time you find yourself falling into a black hole of misery and self pity. Happy New Year.