Describe incidents where someone flirted with you.

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I mainly get hit on by older guys alot. I honestly don't know why. This mostly happens at the mall or at Wal*Mart.

Oh,and you can put down as many indicidents as you want as describe them however you want.

The first time I was ever flirted with,was when I was (late)14 or (early)15.This happened at the mall.I was waiting for my friends to show up so we could go see a movie,and I was walking around the mall. This guy kept whistling at me every time I walked by,but I'd just ignore him. Finally,my legs started to hurt so I sat down on a bench and called one of my friends. That same guy walked up to me and started talking to me. He asked me if I was 18.I'm like,"Um,no,I'm 14....how old are YOU?" He said,"25." I'm like,'HOLY SH!T!RUN AWAY,RUN AWAY!"

I also remember this time I was in Wal*Mart and I saw these two goth guys walk by and I asked him where he got his pants. He said,"I don't know. What are you doing tonight?"


Numerous time,I've got boys shooting flirtatious looks at me and whistling at me.

Last night when I was at the mall,I walked past these two boys and one of them said,"Hey,babe!" to me.I ignored him and kept walking.He followed me,saying,"Hey,sexy,what's your deal?"

I finally grew tired of this,and I whirled on him and snarled,"The deal is annoying f***tards like YOU. Grow up and learn better pickup lines,you dumba$$." He backed off.


-SpaceCase

Older men stare at me for some reason. When I walk home from school I get whistled at by people in their cars. It's disgusting and annoying.

edit: Double post, sorry.

This actually happened to me a lot when I was younger. Starting at age 12 I had men as old as 30 approach me and try to initiate conversation. I treated them with indifference, disgust, or contempt. Mainly I just ignored them. I hate whistling, and I get incredibly embarrassed.

With me, the flirting began when I was about 11. A girl I had known since I was 6 years old hit on me a few times.

The flirting went into high gear in the 7th and 8th grades. In the 9th grade, another childhood friend developed a crush on me. For the second half of the 9th grade, as well as the 10th and part of the 11th grades, I had a woman flirt with me very intensely.

During my senior year in high school, a fellow classmate almost flashed her boobs at me--but I think one of the assistant principals was nearby. This especially would not have been good since I had a girlfriend at the time--but she eventually cheated on me, so the woman who flirted with me may have been doing me a favor in advance.

In my freshman year in college, a woman invited me to play nude volleyball with her friends. I was a very conservative Christian at the time, and my parents would not have been pleased.

No one ever flirted with me again until 2002, when a woman at Best Buy was apparently checking out more than my merchandise. I met my second girlfriend later that year--she and I broke up earlier this year.

Tim

I can't believe I just posted that.

Tim

In 8th grade a girl I'd never met before walked over, talked to me, and asked me for my number. I declined, but she kept at it. I didn't find her attractive at all, both in terms of her appearance and personality, and I didn't understand how she could be so relentlessly interested when she didn't know a thing about me. She returned the next day, said that she'd braided her hair for me, and asked me for my number some more. I tried to convince her that I wasn't a good guy to be around, and told her everything bad about myself, or anything that I'd think she'd think to be bad. Finally I told her I didn't believe in god. She was shocked and never talked to me again. Yay.

In my 9th grade biology class, a girl said to me, "Jonny! I think you're sexy." I kind of stood there for a moment and then was like, "Whatever," because I wasn't sure why she was telling me that. (She had a boyfriend and hadn't acted like she liked me at all in the past.) I should note that I wouldn't react with such indifference to flirting today, but that whole "early high school late middle school" I was in a very rough state, extremely angry at everything, even moreso than I am now, and was determined to show it.

Every so often some girl and I stare at one another a bit, but usually this amounts to nothing. People these days don't flirt with me much, or if they do I don't notice it much. It's probably because back in those days I didn't have pimples, and now they scars from some are really bad.

During one GSA meeting, a promiscous freshman girl tried hitting on me but I told her to back off but she kept at it for three more meetings until I told the adult adviser about it. Said girl never comes to GSA meetings anymore.

Im horrible at recognising when someone is flirting with me
once while in a nighclub(I hate the places) a girl came up and asked me
"So what do you think of the DJ"
being a particulay loud nightclub I heard this as
"Where is the DJ"
so I pointed at the DJ box
"He is down there"
and turned away
I supose the fact she pinched my ass just before asking the question
should have givin it away but at times I am hillariously oblivious
to these things.

I'm so glad to know I'm not the only one who reacts this way when people flirt with me...When strangers try to flirt with me, my usual reaction is to get quite offended. I especially hate it when men *touch* you when they try to flirt...I really don't react well to this. But it's only strangers...I've never gotten freaked out when the man was someone I knew well and was already friends with.

Late last night,me and a male friend who is 18,went to the nearest big city just to ride around and talk. We stopped at some store,and he went to the bathroom.

I was looking for us both some Cokes and this guy walked up to me(I was wearing my glasses and a pearl necklace),and said,"I like nerdy girls.Smart is sexy."

I glared at him and said,"Stupid people amuse me.Especially if they have bizarre pickup lines.*rolls eyes here and sighs in iiritation*"Seriously,have you no life?"

We got into an argument right there,until my friend came out and told him to cool it.


That was pretty d@mn hilarious.


-SpaceCase

i must have been going through an ugly phase as a child cause NO ONE game me the time of day lol

but that changed once i lost the pimples/glasses/braces and started picking out my own clothes

now, i do get hit on a lot and i'm sure that even half of the flirtations just aren't registaring for some reason...

Flirting?

A girl I knew for some time was talking ("flirting") with me once, only I didn't recognise it as such until she said "why don't you have me for lunch sometime"

I wish I could recognise flirting as it happens. lol

Yeah, I wish I could tell as it happens also. I just see to have a problem there. Oh well, that IS one of the main autistic or aspie traits.

Regarding the age deal, I have a hard time discerning age. I guess MOST do! I was once told I looked over 40 when I was 28! I knew a woman EVERYONE thought was about 14. Her height, dress, actions, and voice just made her seem like a little girl. She was well into her 20s!

And that is just with WHITES! Most whites generally agree that orientals tend to look younger. I haven't heard about blacks.

As for pickup lines, I think the "If I told you you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?" one sounds cute, but it is ol, and most women would probably hate it. 8-(

Steve

It's flattering when older girls hit on me, and annoying when younger girls hit on me. I prefer the confident energy of older girls to the needy insecurity of younger girls. Thus I mostly flirt with college-aged girls.
But alas, she that is more than a youth, I am not for her. And she that is less than a woman, well, she is not for me.
Anyway, gay/bi guys also hit on me a lot (though a lot of times as a joke), which is also pretty cool in my book.