Need a little help reading girl w/ Aspergers

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So I need a little help interpreting this girl I know with Aspergers...

We hung out last weekend. Did lots of stuff (go places, hang out a few bars in the town she lives in).

I need help reading what she is doing (since I have aspergers myself).

First, she smiled a lot at me when we were together.
Second, she would tell funny stories about her friends
Third, She is a bit concerned with security, but did eventually show me where she lives and the town she lives in (although she did make a comment when we were walking around the town such as "I'll show you where things are in case you do come back up here..."). What does that mean? And she was selected in what she showed me (in particular, places that were of sigifnicance to her, such as where she has classes, where she works, etc.)
Lastly, she will constantly tell me "good luck with... " (whatever we're talking about, for example once I was talking about some difficult project I had at work... she's like "Well, good luck with that...")

LIke I said, we've hung out twice so far (once with a group of friends, and then again just the two of us).

Does any of this throw up a sign of interest or dis-interest. Need some help here... I don't want to read too much into stuff, but then again, I don't want to miss something or some signal she's giving.

Details sound too confusing for me about romantic interests. Sounds like she enjoys your company though. talk to her and try and get clear answers.

good luck with that is a slang way of saying "oh that sucks for you but i wish you all the best" but if she is normal it means" I'm too cool for you and you best be on your way"

Actually... when I say a sentence to my boyfriend that starts "I hope..." and I say something about something he has said.. it is because I have no clue what else to say and it is a space filler. It doesn't mean I don't want his company or that I am losing interest. I would think that since she is sharing all her stuff like her school and places etc would be an indicator she likes you.

Read the book Aspergirls - it will help you understand female aspies.. not just this one - but any others as well. Then there is also 22 things a woman with Aspergers wants her partner to know... both books by Rudy Simone and both books helped my boyfriend understand me better.

I wish you luck

Don't overthink things. Just keep doing what you are doing, hanging out together, and it may become more obvious. Remember, she would be much in the same boat as you and may be wondering whether you like her too, so relax.

I suspect she does like you and is testing the waters a bit.

If she has Aspergers she's probably wondering the same thing about you. You could just ask her if she likes you........