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Jamesy
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26 Jan 2013, 8:12 pm

When with your gf or bf does it ever turn you off when they pass wind? Don't you think its difficult too get an intimate mood when they make an unpleasent smell?

Overall how do couples get used too it????????_



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26 Jan 2013, 8:59 pm

one upmanship???

It's not pleasant, I guess just over time it's not as bad. We have our moments. We usually keep to ourselves during worst times, like after eating certain foods.

Here is something to think about.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-xFaJUZRkQM[/youtube]


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26 Jan 2013, 8:59 pm

when you love someone romantically, things like that are sort of irrelevant. it's different with friends or family members (or strangers), where those things seem grosser. it's not that it is the most attractive thing, it is just not as gross when you care a lot for a person.

thank god, because i have the worst digestive system ever. veggies suck. dairy products suck. legumes suck. :(


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26 Jan 2013, 9:05 pm

that video was pretty amusing



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26 Jan 2013, 9:14 pm

Jamesy wrote:
When with your gf or bf does it ever turn you off when they pass wind? Don't you think its difficult too get an intimate mood when they make an unpleasent smell?

Overall how do couples get used too it????????_


I have no clue what you're talking about.

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26 Jan 2013, 11:41 pm

^Haha. I never got used to it...not after four years in a relationship and I don't think I ever would have. I'm not sure if it was her being uptight about that stuff or me but I suspect it was me. Strangely, my family is completely open about it so you'd think I'd have been tempered but nope.


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27 Jan 2013, 12:57 am

Jamesy wrote:
When with your gf or bf does it ever turn you off when they pass wind? Don't you think its difficult too get an intimate mood when they make an unpleasent smell?

Overall how do couples get used too it????????_


If you like the person enough, you will both learn to find it funny. When my sister or her boyfriend pass gas when they are together, they will just laugh and tease each other about it. They've been dating for about 8 months now.