What type of people from the opposite gender do you usually

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...unconciously attract, despite of what you do and whether you like them or not?

Is it often the same type?

How do they usually look? What characteristics do they have?

Moderately religious (funnily), seeking for something very serious since the beginning, 25-32 years old and having very bad past relationship experiences.



and oh, they were perceived as introvert thinkers online but turn out to be really extrovert in real life with a vivid social life.

Club rats. Pretty much that, mostly.

It's a pretty diverse mix of people, though they still manage to pretty consistently be people I am decidedly not attracted to. One trend I have noticed is that although I want to attract fellow artists, I seem more likely to attract people who might love looking at art but can't make it themselves at all. I guess those skills are more impressive to those who don't have them.

I also tend to attract a lot of broody, introverted intellectual types, with whom I may have interesting discussions, but things are never able to develop beyond a casual friendship because they simply despise going out to parties/bars/gigs/drinking/dancing/etc, and are often quite misanthropic to boot.

And of course there are the usual people who are way, way too old, but I think that happens to most women.

Farm girls

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A very specific age range and this age range doesn't seem to change as I get older. I might add that they are free thinking/liberal, good conversationalists, attractive women. The problem is their age, I can't seem to switch that filter off.

Bunny boilers with facial piercings, much make-up and BPD.

Emo 16 year olds.

What the hell's a "bunny boiler"? A chick that looks like her face has been boiled?

Never heard that term before. lol

I've been told told that they are all good-looking.

Just nessa's opinion in particular, she's the only one who saw their pics here :p

Facial-piercings usually make the person look ugly in my opinion.

http://www.thefreedictionary.com/bunny+boiler

Ohh I should add a common type too!! !

Clan girls.


The girl i am seeing now turned out to be from a clan family too, I thought at first she was one of those who resided in the city for several generations, since she is so like one, and have no more real ties with their roots in the east. I was wrong, she turned out to be directly from an eastern Beqaa village - meaning her family and her extended family are all real clanish -_______________-

So déjà vu....

Redneck high-school dropouts with missing teeth seem to gravitate to me. So do mopey, underemployed intellectuals with no work ethic. I shoulda just stayed under my rock.

hmmmmm usually creative types, liberal, Christian or atheist or agnostic, aged 19 to 70 (though clustered around 22 to 35), respectful of feminism (otherwise they would not be able to tolerate me), largely no particular look that i can tell (though mostly white or black).

tomboys who like to hang around TONS of men. Like they'll be the only woman around a bunch of guys (then again the music department around here has very few females in the entire program).