Boyfriend with asperger

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Hello!

I've been together with my boyfriend for 4 months now and I love him very much! he is extremely passionate about sounds and always has music on his hear, singing, playing intruments...or everything at once! -and that's one of the reasons that I like him so much, but it also makes me feel very lonely, because I can't be a part of it.

I'm not sure if I'm looking for any answers, but maybe tips on how I can be closer to him! I don't have anyone to talk to about this and need a litte help.

btw: sorry about my english

Why can't you be a part of his love of music? Could you make music together, go to concerts together, or make him a playlist of your favourite songs?

I have tried!
but when he's listening or making music it's impossible to talk to him, he kind of shuts everything and everyone out.

btw: i made him a play list!
he thinks my music taste sucks

My BF is aspie also and listens to rock music...I try my best to try and like it too, but all it sounds to me is of pots and pans banging together!So I just try to get interested in his other subjects. Is there anything else he likes or discusses?

What else do you connect with him on?

Okay, do NOT interupt his "happy time". DON'T. It can f**k with his and therefore your whole day. Just don't do it. Don't. He's thinking. Respect the thinking.

I wish I could get girl a girlfriend by completely ignoring her.