How can I socialize/start a relationship better with girls?

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I am a 15 year old man who has Asperger's Syndrome and Paranoia. Socialising has always been difficult for me but I can socialise reasonably well with guys but not that good with girls. I easily fall in love with a girl but I don't have the guts to ask a girl out. Recently, this feeling keeps getting stronger due to hormones. I want to know how to approach a girl and how to start a relation with one, I am going to greece on the 4th of may and thought this would be a good place to excercise(harshly said, we are dealing with someone's emotions here.) because:
1.The girls there don't know my history.(social awkwardness and was bullied has lead to the majority of girls not even trying to resocialise with me because of the 'group effect'(don't hang out with him, other girls don't do that too.))
2.Small amount of consequences. If I screw something up at school, I might get many bad reactions and often those awkward 'Hey, remember that time when you X' situations.

I am mostly looking for being with a girl that I can love(and preferably be loved back), if she is good looking, that would even better, but any normal girl would suffice.

Please don't judge me for my age, I am mentally very mature for my age, I am willing to take advice that I will learn from, even if I don't agree with it or believe it.

I want to know how to approach a girl and how start a relation with one.

Just talk to them like you would a guy you've just met. Who cares if you make a mistake?? These girls live far away from you. If it goes well, great. If it doesn't, you haven't lost anything you didn't have, no one else you know will know unless you tell them, and you'll have an opportunity to analyze what went wrong and modify it for your next attempt. Rinse and repeat. Then you might just return from vacation with the practice makes perfect confidence to talk to more girls at home.

And a side note: no one gives a s**t about your age. You assume people may, stop doing that. I wasted years of my life doing that, especially in a work/professional capacity, because I graduated young and had a boss that despised young people. In reality, no one cares how old you are if you can do what you say/know you can, whether on a forum or in the workplace. The few that care are idiots if they judge you on your age vs any criteria that actually matter to the task at hand, ie writing and ability to convey your thoughts and ask intelligent questions when it comes to this forum - and you've done just fine at that.

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'15 year old man'

Aaaaw

I understand about the judgement thing, but trust me WP tends to be much more rational and accepting and people usually don't discriminate based on age here