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What draws a woman to you
what do i say so i don't sound weird
first off i am not into the whole bar and nightclub scene
the noise is to loud
if you don't already know i have aspergers syndrome
i'm male at age 20
any good dating tips or advice would be great
also is it true what they say how aspies should only date other aspies cause there made for each other
i wouldn't mind dating a girl who has aspergers like i do
but my main interest is normal NT women
so anything you got to say would be most helpful

As a woman, I'm not sure I can help you with what 'normal NT' women want, as I've never understood them. But I can tell you that there are loads of things that draw me to men - eyes, hands, hair, smell, the way they walk, sense of humour, smile, intelligence, bottom, similar interests, kindness etc. So the only advice I can think of is make the most of what you have by making sure you look good and wear clothes that make the most of your looks, then be yourself and meet lots of people - there is bound to be a girl out there who likes what you have to offer.

What usually works for me is to simply be honest with youself, not just about who you are and exactly what kind of girl you are chasing. What kind of girls are you into? Now, take a look at yourself as a person. Do you think your personality can work with hat woman? If so, approach them. Confidence is key, but I highly doubt confidence alone will help you if you are way too different.

A much better idea would just be to go up to them and say hello. Start a conv ersation about whatever may be on your mind. Don't be afraid to be funny and when you be honest, have a fair amount of tact. Really, approach the girl as if she is one of many beautiful girls, and carry on if the personality is muchto your liking.

It is a lot easier to talk to girls, once you think of them as just any girl from off the street because all you know of her are what you know.

Short version: strike up a friendship and take thngs up th hill from there. Hope she likes what is coming to her. That is the best advice I can come up with.

What usually works for me is to simply be honest with youself, not just about who you are and exactly what kind of girl you are chasing. What kind of girls are you into? Now, take a look at yourself as a person. Do you think your personality can work with hat woman? If so, approach them. Confidence is key, but I highly doubt confidence alone will help you if you are way too different.

A much better idea would just be to go up to them and say hello. Start a conv ersation about whatever may be on your mind. Don't be afraid to be funny and when you be honest, have a fair amount of tact. Really, approach the girl as if she is one of many beautiful girls, and carry on if the personality is muchto your liking.

It is a lot easier to talk to girls, once you think of them as just any girl from off the street because all you know of her are what you know.

Short version: strike up a friendship and take thngs up th hill from there. Hope she likes what is coming to her. That is the best advice I can come up with.

The girls at the nightclub want you to have money, look good (if you have enough money this doesn't matter anymore), and be good in bed. That's about it.

WOMEN (not girls) are all looking for something different. But instead of trying to mold yourself into something a large number of women would want, just become the best version of yourself and you'll find one that likes you that way.