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yellowlab
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07 Apr 2013, 11:22 pm

Hey everyone I wanted to share something I went to high school with this girl that I did not talk to much freshman year but after that she moved after that and I did not talk to her in years and she got married but I found her on facebook and added her and she said she was so happy that I found her and she would always talk to me and she was a great freind I though it was harmless but she got a divorce not long which I'm sorry about .:( She said that her husband's family did not like her because she come from a differnt cultural background and they did not like her becasue she was different but latley I did something I should not have done I started having feelings for her and I told her about it to and she was be mad at me becasue she does not talk to me anymore and I apolize to her but I really miss her but I know I need to give her space and maybe move on but I still miss her :( I was wondering what you all thought about this and opinions thank you so much everyone.

Andrew



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08 Apr 2013, 1:23 am

How do you miss her? Were you guys only talking through Facebook?


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08 Apr 2013, 1:30 am

kinda sorta going threw the same thing. Remove her from facebook if you have not yet (or at least hide her updates at the very least), you are going to have a hard time getting over her if you are constantly getting updates about her. Don't talk to her anymore (of course be friendly if she initiates contact) and time should do the rest. Your lucky you live far away from her, the one I'm getting over with I work with.



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08 Apr 2013, 9:34 am

Thank you mrbagle that is great advace and cakey I just miss talking to her as a great freind she used to always be there for me.



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08 Apr 2013, 1:32 pm

Then at least you don't have to lose a friend that you would see in person. Then that makes the loss less painful. If she doesn't want to talk,it's best to leave her then unless she initiates contact. I'm sure you can make plenty other friends online to chat with just like you did with her.


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08 Apr 2013, 11:37 pm

Move on, and learn how to use punctuation. What a nightmare that was to read..



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09 Apr 2013, 4:13 pm

Sorry everyone about the punctuation I need to work on it sometimes I just get into a hurry. I hope all is having a great day.



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09 Apr 2013, 4:16 pm

What? Sorry I couldn't understand what you were saying.



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13 Apr 2013, 2:14 am

It is clear that you are still missing her a lot. But when she is not responding since a long time then why you are investing your time. It is better to find someone else who will care for you and love you most.



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14 Apr 2013, 3:47 pm

PeterWilliams that is great advice I been trying to give her space and trying to move on and be thankful for the people in my life that do care.



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14 Apr 2013, 11:44 pm

Thank you yellowlab..God bless you.