06 May 2013, 4:30 pm
06 May 2013, 5:08 pm
06 May 2013, 5:16 pm
minervx wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Can anyone explain to me the logic of a person you've seen in the past and have blocked via email, phoning you up to see if they can see you again and talking about how they had a nightmare about their ex girlfriend; how she seems to be haunting them. When I enquire about their relationship it seems it ended without closure as she said she just wanted to be on her own and it wasn't him. So he more or less admits he's found this hard to come to terms with and it still bothers him.
How on earth would this be a good way of getting anyone back on side ie talking about your ex in a manner that makes it perfectly clear you aren't over the break up?! How f-king insensitive can a person be?!
How on earth would this be a good way of getting anyone back on side ie talking about your ex in a manner that makes it perfectly clear you aren't over the break up?! How f-king insensitive can a person be?!
It's clear he was thinking of himself and his emotions and never took the time to think how you might feel. It's all too common.
I agree
Yet if I make the merest mention of speaking to another male he doesn't like it at all and says he doesn't want to listen to it!
06 May 2013, 5:16 pm
minervx wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Can anyone explain to me the logic of a person you've seen in the past and have blocked via email, phoning you up to see if they can see you again and talking about how they had a nightmare about their ex girlfriend; how she seems to be haunting them. When I enquire about their relationship it seems it ended without closure as she said she just wanted to be on her own and it wasn't him. So he more or less admits he's found this hard to come to terms with and it still bothers him.
How on earth would this be a good way of getting anyone back on side ie talking about your ex in a manner that makes it perfectly clear you aren't over the break up?! How f-king insensitive can a person be?!
How on earth would this be a good way of getting anyone back on side ie talking about your ex in a manner that makes it perfectly clear you aren't over the break up?! How f-king insensitive can a person be?!
It's clear he was thinking of himself and his emotions and never took the time to think how you might feel. It's all too common.
I agree
Yet if I make the merest mention of speaking to another male he doesn't like it at all and says he doesn't want to hear about it.
06 May 2013, 5:20 pm
06 May 2013, 5:27 pm
06 May 2013, 5:31 pm
06 May 2013, 5:43 pm
Cilantro wrote:
nessa238 wrote:
Yes, he's always trying to make me feel sorry for him
In the past I've given and lent him money but this stopped abruptly when I lent him £100 and have not had any of it back yet
I've told him the only way he's getting an invite to my house again is if he brings repayment of the money he still owes me
I thought this reference to the ex was partly a pity play and partly a way of winding me up as he knows I've got the control in this situation. He knows how much it wound me up when he talked about how wonderful she was before!
He's an idiot if he thinks this is going to change my mind about anything!
In the past I've given and lent him money but this stopped abruptly when I lent him £100 and have not had any of it back yet
I've told him the only way he's getting an invite to my house again is if he brings repayment of the money he still owes me
I thought this reference to the ex was partly a pity play and partly a way of winding me up as he knows I've got the control in this situation. He knows how much it wound me up when he talked about how wonderful she was before!
He's an idiot if he thinks this is going to change my mind about anything!
I wouldn't talk to him further if I were you. Attention is attention to some people and any attention is an opportunity to wind someone up.
I had blocked him by email so I tried this for 2 weeks then he phoned me up on Saturday
He knows I still like him but I'm sick of his disregard for my feelings. He'll say he loves me but that things can't develop when I keep going off on one and blocking him etc but the reason I do this is because he does things like borrow money and not pay it back and a lot of other hurtful things that he will dismiss as nothing but which have hurt me a lot!
He does a mind trick on me whereby I know instinctively that he's no good but he also makes me feel he's someone I want.
06 May 2013, 6:15 pm
06 May 2013, 6:26 pm
Moridin8 wrote:
To be blunt, he's a grade-a as*hole.
I'd chalk that £100 up as a loss, never let him anywhere near you again and block his phone number and keep it blocked.
I don't think you need the drama or his BS.
I'd chalk that £100 up as a loss, never let him anywhere near you again and block his phone number and keep it blocked.
I don't think you need the drama or his BS.
This is the opinion of everyone else I've told about him
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