lady, said a very nice ''hi'' to me

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01 May 2013, 9:38 pm

So, I was at the gym, heading to the swimming pool,
so on the way to the locker, some lady walked by and said a really, nice ''hi'' to me,
not a regular ''hi'' but a very nice ''hi'' ( hope you get what Im saying)

and when I leaving the pool, Another lady said ''hi'' to me.

So, when Im clean shaven, and have my shirt off ( I am athletic guy),ladies say
hi to me.
but when I have a beard, and my shirt on, they don't say nothing to me..

What gives, Im the same person, with or without a beard,
with or without a shirt.



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01 May 2013, 9:41 pm

Women these day do not appreciate the true beauty of facial hair. They actually prefer the hobo scruff that you find on pop stars when they forget to shave, than a good mustache, goatee, mutton chops, or fu man choo. Braided beards are almost taboo. My face is sad, it is forced to be bald!


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01 May 2013, 10:55 pm

Consider it a bit of a social experiment... so far you seem to get more female attention when clean shaven. Like it or not, some things will appeal to a culture/group of people more than others... so long as it's not something you morally object to - go with what works!

Shaving is a small price to pay for ladies to flirt with you!



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01 May 2013, 11:08 pm

Now you have to always walk around shirtless and clean shaven!


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02 May 2013, 1:23 am

appletheclown wrote:
Women these day do not appreciate the true beauty of facial hair. They actually prefer the hobo scruff that you find on pop stars when they forget to shave, than a good mustache, goatee, mutton chops, or fu man choo. Braided beards are almost taboo. My face is sad, it is forced to be bald!


This is true, I myself like clean shaven guys and I haven't met another girl who ever said she found facial hair particularly attractive with the exception of minor stubble.



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02 May 2013, 3:53 am

Keep doing what it works, if I hadn't used a beach/shirtless pic for my okc, I wouldn't have gotten a single date out of it (before shirtless pic 0 date, 0 attention during 2 years of use, after shirtless pic: dozen dates), some ladies would tell you that guys who post such pics are douches and wouldn't contact/reply, well.... those same women wouldn't probably contact/reply you whatever you're wearing for whatever reason, so it would be more effective to get the attention of those who would like you at first because of such picture.

A beach pic is two birds in one stone: Those who think bad of guys putting shirtless pic wouldn't think bad of you because well..it's normal to be shirtless on beach, and those who like to see such pic will like it anyway. And it makes you look more sociable and fun, that's a third bird.



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07 May 2013, 12:15 am

appletheclown wrote:
Women these day do not appreciate the true beauty of facial hair. They actually prefer the hobo scruff that you find on pop stars when they forget to shave, than a good mustache, goatee, mutton chops, or fu man choo. Braided beards are almost taboo. My face is sad, it is forced to be bald!


Date a hipster?



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07 May 2013, 12:54 am

I think beards are out now. Maybe a small one or a goatee or something, but it's just not in style anymore from what I've seen. Since you get more notice with your shirt off why not try wearing a wife beater type shirt? Show the arms and shoulders and see if that gets you anywhere.


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07 May 2013, 1:06 am

OliveOilMom wrote:
I think beards are out now. Maybe a small one or a goatee or something, but it's just not in style anymore from what I've seen. Since you get more notice with your shirt off why not try wearing a wife beater type shirt? Show the arms and shoulders and see if that gets you anywhere.


Yeah I was going to add that disclaimer. Maybe there are some that still like it. I know I do - not mountain-man beard, but not clean-shaven either.



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07 May 2013, 4:49 am

What length are we talking about when it comes to beard, because that is important too.



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07 May 2013, 8:12 am

She actually said "hi" to you!? 8O

Marry her already!! !! !! !



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10 May 2013, 10:36 am

Stalk wrote:
What length are we talking about when it comes to beard, because that is important too.


I'm actually being serious, because different beards does mean something else in each culture or scenario.



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10 May 2013, 11:08 am

Funny, a while ago in a thread on here everybody told me to grow facial hair in order to be hotter.



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10 May 2013, 11:32 am

The 3-day beard thing seems to be what woman want, it is sort of like a love hate relationship they have with it.



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10 May 2013, 8:14 pm

I think the whole beard thing can work to be honest. I mean consider that there's hundreds of thousands of women swooning over Charlie Hunnam (This guy) http://cdn02.cdn.justjared.com/wp-conte ... e-stop.jpg

And he's almost got the full business going, it may just be how much you grow it out and such.