How do you make your intentions clear?

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26 May 2013, 10:57 pm

Okay, so I know how to do the blunt 'want to go to bed with me?' thing, but how do I make it known that I might be interested in a real relationship? I'm always afraid of being shot down, and I can never read signals from others unless they are being blunt.

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26 May 2013, 11:01 pm

just tell your boyfriend, that you want a serious relationship. Im sure, he be cool with it.

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26 May 2013, 11:04 pm

billiscool wrote:

just tell your boyfriend, that you want a serious relationship. Im sure, he be cool with it.

I don't have a boyfriend.

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26 May 2013, 11:08 pm

Alycat wrote:

billiscool wrote:

just tell your boyfriend, that you want a serious relationship. Im sure, he be cool with it.

I don't have a boyfriend.

Oh, I thought you did. I say if you like a guy, just be up front about it. Tell him. that it, not too hard.

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26 May 2013, 11:11 pm

Just tell him exactly what you want in a relationship.

Yes, it really is that easy.

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26 May 2013, 11:29 pm

Fnord wrote:

Just tell him exactly what you want in a relationship.

Yes, it really is that easy.

Pretty much. Rejection stings, but once you've put it out there the wondering is over and you can either progress to enjoying yourselves or trying to move on.

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27 May 2013, 1:24 am

Seduce him.

Ask other women to teach you how.

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28 May 2013, 7:14 pm

Don't take him to bed right away.

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