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19 May 2013, 7:36 am

who on here is married or in a relationship?
and those that are neither do you think there is hope for us when it comes to relationships?

JanuaryMan
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19 May 2013, 8:39 am

There's always hope.

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19 May 2013, 11:24 am

not realy in a relatinship now, but I ws in a relationship severl years ago taht resulted in a son, but nevre married the mother, even thuogh i wanted to (she didnt want to),

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19 May 2013, 11:48 am

I'm single, and that's very okay with me. I've been in a few long term relationships, and now that I'm being diagnosed, I can really see how my AS contributed to either choosing someone /completely/ wrong for me, and staying with them way, way too long; or how I've misunderstood people who might have been good matches for me, and missed out or left them.

I think there's lots of hope out there, it's just a matter of knowing yourself first and then working on finding what would make you happiest, and have patience. Nothing drives the right people away and the wrong people closer than an air of desperation to find someone as soon as possible.

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19 May 2013, 11:56 am

happily married.

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19 May 2013, 1:38 pm

I'm in a relationship, and have been in one for two years now. She asked me out, and we just gradually took things from there. I didn't have any luck with women before then.

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19 May 2013, 2:08 pm

I am married. I met my now-husband at 32 and married at 35. We have 2 kids (plus 1 full-time stepdaughter). So yes, it can happen!

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19 May 2013, 6:14 pm

mrwhite23 wrote:

who on here is married or in a relationship?
and those that are neither do you think there is hope for us when it comes to relationships?

Why do you believe marriage to be a good thing?

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22 May 2013, 6:08 pm

Currently in a semi-official relationship of about 8 months.

Was in a relationship for nearly 7 years once before. Really, it shouldn't have lasted as long as it did - the last two years were horrible.

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22 May 2013, 6:37 pm

WestBender84 wrote:

mrwhite23 wrote:

who on here is married or in a relationship?
and those that are neither do you think there is hope for us when it comes to relationships?

Why do you believe marriage to be a good thing?

Because it is proven to be better for children, and I want to have sons and daughters and make a lady happy that wants them.

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22 May 2013, 7:01 pm

<<< Happily married!

Dinonut92
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23 May 2013, 12:23 pm

single

i feel like a relationship is hopeless. It is hard to meet girls and it is hard for me to talk to them

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23 May 2013, 1:04 pm

Give the question marks, i thought this would be more interesting.

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23 May 2013, 4:20 pm

I take it you are not feeling too hopeful in your prospects?

I can tell you I was in a relationship for over 4 years so yes it is possible, that being said I had a horrible time with it so being 'in a relationship' isn't always great and wonderful, sometimes being solo is better.

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Alynn
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24 May 2013, 11:05 am

Been in a relationship for almost a year now (as of the 16th of June). I thought it would never happen and I still barely believe it when he says he loves me.
There's definitely hope, I think.

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24 May 2013, 11:19 am

Yes, there is hope. I've had some very deep and profound relationships.

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