would I be consider a ''nice guy''

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would I be consider a ''nice guy'' ( the slang dating kind, not being nice in real life)
I never have issues with woman who don't want to date me ( that's their decision)
I will admit I have faults.
I have good self esteem ( just because I can admit to my flaws don't mean I hate myself)
I admit sometimes I have over the top personality, semi-alpha acting around women
at times. ( my pickup lines)
so, would I be a ''nice guy'' or not.
or am I jerk? hope not.LOL.
or am I just crazy..... crazy!! !!

This certainly sounds good (or nice if you prefer).


This could go either way, depending on how it comes off, but as long as the first quoted statement holds true, it should be okay.

would you go out of your way to help someone? would you never hit someone unless they were trying to kill you?

these tell more about my definition of a nice person than the info you gave.

What's the point of this thread exactly?

I thought you had given up dating.........

You don't sound like a Nice Guy™. You're alright although a bit immature.

It's his special interest.

Msitook him for someone else. Got him mixed up with that Briansruns guy.

If you don't treat people like crap, if your all around trying to be a good person, and if you don't go out of your way to be superior than everyone else around you then you are a nice guy in my eyes.

You didn't list enough information.

Being a nice guy is overall irrelevant. What is relevant is your ability to seduce and trigger her attraction switches. "Nice guy" in the negative sense usually means wuss who is afraid to touch or offend her or anyone related to her. A man who truly loves a woman will not let anything stop him, even if the woman is committed to another.

Being a nice guy in terms of dating and a nice guy in terms of real life should not be two separate things.

That sounds more creepy and obsessive than anything else, to me.

Only for the man who is lacking in his seductive abilities, but not for the modern-day Casanova.

You probably would be by some girls. There isn't one narrow definition of "nice guy", and not every girl is going to agree on these matters.

If a man tried to seduce a woman commited to me, I wouldn't like it very much, and would have to put him in his place. Odd how a lot of people don't think of how many ways there are for the committed man to fix this, and even spice up his partner's life.

It is kind of creepy and obsessive. For a Casanova, the lowest of all dick moves.

There's a difference between the nice guy who is just being nice to get sex (the creep) and the nice guy who is polite and actually cares about the other's feelings. There is an art to it, women like nice guys, just not creeps.

You're oversimplifying things, and I'm seeing this way too often here with regards to this subject. Whether one is a creep or not depends on how you perceive that person, regardless of what he's after.

And what about being nice in order to have a romantic involvement with the girl? What about someone who's nice in general being even nicer to a girl he wants to have a relationship with? Is this guy not a genuinely nice guy because he acted nicer than usual with a girl even though he is normally nice with everyone else? What about the nice guy who does care about your feelings but wants to have a romantic connection and aims to achieve it by being overly nice only to end up failing?

What point is there in assuring a genuinely nice guy that he's not the typical condemned Nice Guy even though he still fails at love and relationships? So this nice guy A is not considered the condemned Nice Guy by you or some other girl, but what does this serve if both he and nice guy B who is considered the condemned Nice Guy by you fail at romance or sex or whatever goal they are wishing to achieve anyway?