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Hi guys, if i am ugly and not very good with and girls think and look at me with distgust should i get an escort so at least i feel loved and not lonely anymore?

Yes, that will definitely solve any insecurity or social problems you may have.

In case you can't tell, the above post was sarcasm.

Sorry i don't get sarcasm.

Try reading the hundred other threads on the same topic. I'm sure there are people out there that have been successful with this strategy, but I'm going to guess your wallet/401K/pension/inheritance isn't going to be large enough for a paid companion to be a long term viable option.

If that's what you want, then sure.

You definitely won't be loved this way though. No need to deceive yourself.

Love and sex are not the same thing, as you can experience either one without the other.

Love and sex are two separate things. You'll have release from sexual tension, but you will soon go back to longing for love and affection. *Shrug*

I've paid for sex a couple times. To be litteral, there is a need within the community for this service.

If you feel you need this service, use it.

It will be a welcome reliefe, and you can at least pretend to have a girl friend for an hour.

I then recommend that you seek out a councilor, because honestly, ugly does not stop girls loving you. You have low self esteem and blaiming your luck on your looks. You have a false impression of what girls are actualy interested in.

Funny enough, I was sort of a bit drunk one night in Berlin and so got enticed into what I though would be a Strip Club, turned out it was just a cover for a Brothel, one of the two Prostitutes I had was brand new on the job, I think she liked me cause she asked me to marry her!

There's a joke that prostitutes are not paid for sex, they are paid to go away afterwards.

If you're wanting love and acceptance then engaging in an activity where they're supposed to go away as soon as you're finished, may not be fully satisfying.

If you wanna rent a hot chick for sex, just do it, don't try to justify it with noble (or pathetic) reasons, and try to get others to validate it for you.

For me it helped me out a major amount, i mean, it really put a few things in perspective for me, gave me a bit more confidence, gave me a different realisation about ladies and life ( a more positive one). Also i realized society places far too much emphasis on sex and it isn't all that, which helped me go forward actually being interested in ladies rather than just their midrift.

Yes, the 'Girlfriend Experience' type of service, and is a great experience, depending on where you live, if it's in the US, Nevada's legal brothels would be the best choice. If you don't live in the US and prostitution is legal there, Congrats! your government does not prevent you from getting laid and/or experiencing a bit of [simulated] romance from the 'girlfriend experience' service.

And well, yeah prostitution is not the same as getting a real girlfriend but it is better than nothing, and if you want to look at the good side of it (yes there is no matter what others say), you don't have to deal with crap that I often observe in couples: fights, treating the other like garbage, jealousy, breakups, trying to change who you are like imposing their beliefs on you, etc.

If you are socially awkward, you are taken a higher risk to be taken advantage of by your partner than if you weren't. I have observed this and I'm so glad I haven't lived through it regarding relationships but I know I would if that was my case (in this sense, rejection is a whole better).

So for now I'd rather get thousands of experiences with prostitutes before I want to take such risk if I am able to.

I've seen it work, for the duration of the time you are together. The potential downside is having difficulty emotionally accepting that it is a cordial but still professional relationship that is session-delimited, and not getting caught in the proverbial "fall in love" trap. That can be trickier than it might seem, depending upon one's emotional vulnerability at the time.

Speaking as someone who has paid for sex, I can tell you there are definitely a few benefits. Biggest one being, if you're a virgin, it'll take care of that probem and rid you of that stigma. Let me tell, I felt lighter walking out of that call girl's home just knowing I wasn't a virgin anymore.

It's not all good though. For one, the sex is likely not gonna be very good and you probably won't orgasm. This is due to a mix of your (obvious) nervousness and the fact that, quite frankly, most of these women don't give the slightest bit of a crap if you get off or not. They're there for your money.

I imagine you're in your early to late twenties, if that's the case, I definitely recommend it. Being physically unattractive and socially inept already makes it difficult for men like us to find willing sexual and romantic partners of the opposite sex. You don't need to add a complete and utter lack of sexual experience to that list.