Worst thing the opposite gender has ever told you about you?

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I remember I had 3 different girls tell me in my face that I was butt-ugly when I was in my teens, none of those knew each other, even though they had a point back then.

What about you?

I was never certain if this insult was aimed at me, but I think it was. When I was in my teens a girl in my presence said "you are a poor excuse for a human being."

Girls often like being nasty I think.

Gosh, there is so much to choose from...

I think 'You n-word whore' might be the most annoying, mostly because I am not of african decent but of Indian (the nationality, not the native american kind) decent. At least get your racial slurs right.

The most hurtful was being called manipulative, because I am pretty much straight forward. What I say is what I mean. I just don't have the capacity to trick someone into doing what I want them to.

"No wonder your ugly, your a ass-pie."

How old were those females telling you that?

Don't tell me they were older than 18.

End of society...

In high school there was a girl who kept insinuating that the fact I was a virgin at 18 was a terrible thing, and it made me "one of the biggest p*****s (she) had ever met."

Gender doesn't define cruelty, so I returned by saying "at least I am not the littlest whore in the school." I made fun of her height and the fact she was a slut (this isn't an insult it's true) it may have been a mean thing to do and perhaps not the right way to deal with the situation but I don't take crap like that from anyone.

Um i think the worse for me was either being called gay so many times i lost track. or being asked by the love of my life to come to her wedding i cried in my truck for 20 minutes after that one. she was also my best friend.

It was told to everyone else first, then to my face. "Do you have a hit list or something? If so, Am I on it?"

I had a an ex-fiance tell me that I was "crushing his soul" or "killing his soul" or something to that effect, while he was breaking up with me a few weeks before our wedding date. Also had an ex-boyfriend tell me I would probably die alone. (Honestly, dying alone would be better than dying while in an unhappy relationship with him, but whatever. )

<--- Gets called "crazy" a lot.

"I want a divorce, because I don't love you any more, you are not the man I tried to change you into, and I want a life of my own without you."

She could've just as easily said, "I'm banging the insurance guy".

when young women call me ''old''. I don't mind being called creepy,weird,jerk. But calling me ''old'' pisses me off.
I am not OLD. I am 30.

being told that I was unapproachable really stung. I am NOT unapproachable!! !

Can I be honest with you for a second bill?

I get treated like a child whenever I talk to most women lately.

Why does this happen?

Because Im a bit scared of approaching females and I tend to approach those that are safe-ish and wont question my intentions too much.
Older women just think Im being nice whenever I say something to them.


What would I have to do if I was deeply offended by being treated as a child?
Avoid approaching older females, stick to those of my age gap.


You talk a lot about approaching gym workers in their 20s, you are 1.5 times their age so I m not surprised that some of them see you as old, in the same way Im not surprised one of my friends keeps comparing me to her child(he is my age, they have issues she feels better seeing her and I can actually get along)


Worst thing Ive been told by the opposite sex?
For years it was suggested that I needed to update my wardrobe by some of them. It went as far as a group of males/females rating my clothing daily as some sort of game to try to keep me trying to improve myself

Um, how is this an insult?

Anyway, being gay myself, I think it would be more appropriate to give the worst thing other said to me by another gay man. There was a guy I went on a few dates with (and for a few moments thought might have ended up in a relationship with) before deciding that things were going to fast and that it wouldn't work between us. I told him this very politely and apologetically. He responded by saying that I'd used him (he'd pushed me into fooling around with him and thus thought that I'd ended things after I'd gotten some sex out of him) and called me a nervous Asperger's freak.

There was a friend of a friend who I'd been chatting with a lot for quite a while (online, though I knew her in Real Life), and we always seemed to get along really well...and one day, and opportunity presented itself, and I decided it was time to man up, be brave, be confident, and admit that I had a crush on her. I worded it playfully, so that if she wasn't interested, she could easily brush it aside as me goofing around.

"Get a job. Dress different, wear nice shoes, LISTEN TO GOOD MUSIC. And I'm just not attracted to you in any way."

...was roughly her reply.

Re-reading the log, I'm surprised I was able to play it off as calmly as I did, but I don't think we've spoken since.