how to be liked?

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How to be liked?
And don't just say ...... Be yourself ( smiley face,).

treat people well. love them. help them. compliment them. respect them.

People don't like me, so I don't like people.

I don't like interacting with people either and I feel that they see that (on my face) . nonetheless it gets lonely sometimes.

Also I do compliment but It never feels genuine, its just so odd .because it usually leads to a convo which can get pretty wide or random and drift right off my script.
Then I give them the What! Face or the ever present wondering eye.

Generally the only people who like me are people who are somewhat/very eccentric themselves.

as long as one special person likes me, then i'm all set. I guess that is the deal for a lot of us, to find that one special person. the only thing I could suggest, is to just treat others as you yourself would like to be treated. honor the golden rule, IOW.