The last hour encouragements

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The date is just after 1 hour o_O

Cheer me up! Fast! Go!

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_82FXt2SB8[/youtube]

Ever anyone been on a date with someone who turns out to be too good for you? or at least you feel that way?

Yeah, it was that case today.

Mixed feelings.

Too good hmm?
No such thing - let us examine zis.

Looks wise - its the person inside that counts. If it didn't we would be content with beautiful catatonics.

Money - fortunes come and go, as do careers.

Personality - if you are shy, things are bound to be a bit awkward to begin with.
Someone more confident may be better initially at conversation, but they may enjoy a person who doesn't try to override them or dismiss their views.

If you liked the person, don't be too quick to assume they don't like you.
For you, a song from the wicked witch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=79cG_F1GxfI

Don't let insecurity mess with your head.

I am too logical to feel 'insecure' on no logical basis.

Honestly, I can't compute why she even needs okcupid.

Keni, it's all what you mentioned lol.

She is probably fed up of the usual men who strut around like little bantam roosters
(or more likely the seagulls in the "finding Nemo" cartoon - Mine!Mine!Mine!)
and is interested in you because you are treating her like an individual not a trophy.
Or
She is a serial killer who is luring you in - did you check for fava beans and a nice Chianti?

^ most likely scenario - you choose

The serial killer thing sounds more plausible.

...is there any other kind of date??

Whatever you do boo just don't be yourself then you will be fine.

Everyone is too good for me. I don't know why I even try. I feel like a circus puppy jumping through a hoop back and forth for little doggy treats.

Yeah there is, when the date turns out totally crazy.

Btw the date lasted from 7:30 pm to 11pm in a mall center, 3.5 hours, that's the longest first date ever. Had coffee, then walked the mall, then had juice then mingled with gadget demos, then light dinner (and she insisted to pay half).

And she suggested leaving when the stores started closing their doors.
I can tell she was conformable otherwise she wouldn't had prolonged it that long (and she came with her own car).

sounds promising boo. So do you like her?

You are actually writing about practical rather than theory.

The "first date" is always the easy part...landing the "second date", however...I have no experience in that field

So I gave up and decided that being "just friends" and seeing where it goes from there is a much nicer alternative.