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25 Jun 2013, 7:07 pm

Doing tons of it for a federal agency as a summer clerk has taught me how to use OKC better.

For example, I never used it much before because it's such a pain to wade through all those profiles of normal girls who have a million friends and way too many fun activities to ever have time for dating (or so it seems). I usually lost interest in like a day.

1. Put together the following string: "bi girls" (more likely to be open-minded) + keyword: "Game of Thrones" (correlates with more open-minded/geek friendly)

2. Hide all the pictures that show NT smiles

3. Hide all the unattractive profiles.

4. Then, search for "outgoing" as a keyword within your search and "hide" all those profiles.

Congratulations! You may have narrowed your pool to aspie or aspie-friendly open-minded girls.



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25 Jun 2013, 11:13 pm

wow I think I will try it since I am on OKC right now. I Like the idea of "NT smiles" and having to wade through a bunch of normal boring girls. If I read another profile about how they go and have adventures I am going to shoot myself! lol. What is with all these uber adventurous I go rock climbing women probably they just sit at home and eat Ben and Jerry's all night and complain how big their butt is. lol. I smell bullS$#%.

Let me please find a more nerdy aspie type woman who loves to play RPGs. Please. I want a gamer chick. Or a goth chick? please. I tried to date this punk chick but she ended up giving me the boot.

Is there some type of Gamer dating site? Most women seem to hate that us men play video games. There was one who said if a guy cannot live without video games do not bother talking to her. Well thank you very much I will scratch you off my list have a nice life.



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25 Jun 2013, 11:22 pm

Tyri0n wrote:

1. Put together the following string: "bi girls" (more likely to be open-minded) .



and aren't bi girl more likely to hit on guys first, they do date women so they kinda have to make the first move.



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26 Jun 2013, 12:28 am

A normal girl is cool with me. I'm sure she'd get bored fast, though. Normal girls actually just spend all day going on Facebook and never go outside and do anything. Seriously, when do normal girls go call their friends up and be like "HEY LETS PICK BERRIES IN THIS ABANDONED LOT." I want a cool outgoing girl, just cool and outgoing doesn't mean going to clubs and getting hammered on a regular basis. Also I've not really watched TV at all since like 2011. The only things I used to watch were Travel Channel, Top Gear, and Gordon Ramsey/maybe a few other BBC shows. TV really died for me when the AZN channel died. Also I feel weird amongst "nerds" even, it's about the same feeling as being with cool jockbros, just "wtf you f*****g idiot why don't you watch Game of Thrones."

Basically a girl I want is a girl I can have a nice day like this with:
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=akk8TZCPmTc[/youtube]
Basically I want a hyperactive anime character girl.



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26 Jun 2013, 1:14 am

punkguy378 wrote:
wow I think I will try it since I am on OKC right now. I Like the idea of "NT smiles" and having to wade through a bunch of normal boring girls. If I read another profile about how they go and have adventures I am going to shoot myself! lol. What is with all these uber adventurous I go rock climbing women probably they just sit at home and eat Ben and Jerry's all night and complain how big their butt is. lol. I smell bullS$#%.

Let me please find a more nerdy aspie type woman who loves to play RPGs. Please. I want a gamer chick. Or a goth chick? please. I tried to date this punk chick but she ended up giving me the boot.

Is there some type of Gamer dating site? Most women seem to hate that us men play video games. There was one who said if a guy cannot live without video games do not bother talking to her. Well thank you very much I will scratch you off my list have a nice life.


You can add video game-related terms to your search terms in OKC or use Nerd Passions. Sadly, I have a disability that prevents me from playing video games, so I have a handicap here that you likely don't. I have to be going after a very narrow subset of nerds.



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26 Jun 2013, 1:58 am

0 results.



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26 Jun 2013, 3:59 pm

Looks like good tips there! I'll try it when I get my account there.



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26 Jun 2013, 6:08 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
0 results.


Yeah, it's not really helpful if it eliminates all the girls on the site.



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26 Jun 2013, 7:22 pm

I just answered a lot of the questions and set it to sort them by match %. It's a lot to go through at first (though I'm sure it depends on where you live and how far away you're looking), but eventually you'll get to the point where there's just a couple of new faces a week, and you're just playing the waiting game.


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26 Jun 2013, 7:29 pm

i got no matches. maybe im doing something wrong? im using the myDevice app


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26 Jun 2013, 7:52 pm

Also try searching for tumlbr. Most females on tumblr are into multiple fandoms and i have gotten over a dozen numbers through there. Of course my issue is that the kind of girl i want is not to be found so no matter where i look its fruitless.
But seriously tumblr is full of fan based girls and they are some of the most accepting people on the planet. Well as long as you don't offened them. but generally you can find the sweet ones.
And alot of single girls too who like to spend time online if your into that.



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27 Jun 2013, 12:42 am

What does Game of Thrones have to do with it?
I think maybe the Big Bang Theory is a more aspie-friendly show, especially if their favorite character is Sheldon.. 8)



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27 Jun 2013, 12:57 am

Game of thrones is wildly popular right now.



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27 Jun 2013, 2:03 am

zarok wrote:
Game of thrones is wildly popular right now.

yah - might mean its actually a less valid indicator of aspie friendly.



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27 Jun 2013, 5:22 am

I don't even like Game of Thrones 8)


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27 Jun 2013, 9:48 am

SabbraCadabra wrote:
I don't even like Game of Thrones 8)


I guess maybe my search thing would be "anime."