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ASPartOfMe
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30 Mar 2019, 10:31 am

Number of Americans Not Having Sex Reaches All-Time High

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The share of U.S. adults reporting no sex reached an all-time high last year, according to the latest data from the General Social Survey. Nearly 23 percent of adults between the ages of 18 to 29 were celibate in 2018, more than double the number since 2008. The data underscores a three-decade trend, marked by an aging population and higher numbers of single people. One surprising result from the data was that a much larger than expected number of the sexless individuals were men. For most of the past three decades, men and women in their twenties reported similar rates of sexlessness. Since 2008, however, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled—compared to an eight percentage point increase reported among females of the same age group.

There are several theories as to why more young men are sexless than their female counterparts. One explanation is that labor force participation by young men has dropped, and researchers see a “connection between labor force participation and stable relationships,” according to Jean Twenge, a professor of psychology at San Diego State University who writes about Generation Z. Other explanations are that young men are more likely to live with their parents, and technology’s affect on men. “There are a lot more things to do at 10 o’clock at night now than there were 20 years ago,” Twenge said.


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30 Mar 2019, 11:37 am

ASPartOfMe wrote:
Number of Americans Not Having Sex Reaches All-Time High
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The share of U.S. adults reporting no sex reached an all-time high last year, according to the latest data from the General Social Survey. Nearly 23 percent of adults between the ages of 18 to 29 were celibate in 2018, more than double the number since 2008. The data underscores a three-decade trend, marked by an aging population and higher numbers of single people. One surprising result from the data was that a much larger than expected number of the sexless individuals were men. For most of the past three decades, men and women in their twenties reported similar rates of sexlessness. Since 2008, however, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled—compared to an eight percentage point increase reported among females of the same age group.

There are several theories as to why more young men are sexless than their female counterparts. One explanation is that labor force participation by young men has dropped, and researchers see a “connection between labor force participation and stable relationships,” according to Jean Twenge, a professor of psychology at San Diego State University who writes about Generation Z. Other explanations are that young men are more likely to live with their parents, and technology’s affect on men. “There are a lot more things to do at 10 o’clock at night now than there were 20 years ago,” Twenge said.

I'm surprised they didn't include dating/hookup apps in the reasons for the dramatic drop for men. Tinder and the like make it very easy for women to flock to the best-looking men they can get with, and in so doing they decrease the opportunities for less attractive men to have sex. If people had to meet organically without the internet, the guys who are lower down the attractiveness scale would stand a better chance.

If this trend of sexless men continues to get worse, I wouldn't be surprised if "incels" become a much bigger problem than they are now. Very few young heterosexual men can live with being "forever alone", or even alone for an extended period of time (several years) without it taking a toll on their psyche, and those who are more predisposed to aggression and violence, who hate their existence and who, as a result, have no qualms with dying and killing people could become very dangerous to society.

I hope we as a society can identify a solution for this problem before it comes to a head.



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30 Mar 2019, 11:52 am

The Grand Inquisitor wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
Number of Americans Not Having Sex Reaches All-Time High
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The share of U.S. adults reporting no sex reached an all-time high last year, according to the latest data from the General Social Survey. Nearly 23 percent of adults between the ages of 18 to 29 were celibate in 2018, more than double the number since 2008. The data underscores a three-decade trend, marked by an aging population and higher numbers of single people. One surprising result from the data was that a much larger than expected number of the sexless individuals were men. For most of the past three decades, men and women in their twenties reported similar rates of sexlessness. Since 2008, however, the share of men younger than 30 reporting no sex has nearly tripled—compared to an eight percentage point increase reported among females of the same age group.

There are several theories as to why more young men are sexless than their female counterparts. One explanation is that labor force participation by young men has dropped, and researchers see a “connection between labor force participation and stable relationships,” according to Jean Twenge, a professor of psychology at San Diego State University who writes about Generation Z. Other explanations are that young men are more likely to live with their parents, and technology’s affect on men. “There are a lot more things to do at 10 o’clock at night now than there were 20 years ago,” Twenge said.

I'm surprised they didn't include dating/hookup apps in the reasons for the dramatic drop for men. Tinder and the like make it very easy for women to flock to the best-looking men they can get with, and in so doing they decrease the opportunities for less attractive men to have sex. If people had to meet organically without the internet, the guys who are lower down the attractiveness scale would stand a better chance.

If this trend of sexless men continues to get worse, I wouldn't be surprised if "incels" become a much bigger problem than they are now. Very few young heterosexual men can live with being "forever alone", or even alone for an extended period of time (several years) without it taking a toll on their psyche, and those who are more predisposed to aggression and violence, who hate their existence and who, as a result, have no qualms with dying and killing people could become very dangerous to society.

I hope we as a society can identify a solution for this problem before it comes to a head.


If I remember right, women on Tinder swipe right on only 14% of men.

And I wonder how 'distributed' these 14%.


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I hope we as a society can identify a solution for this problem before it comes to a head.


There's nothing can be done, It had been always the case in most of mankind's history.

The monogamy thing is short-lived.

https://psmag.com/environment/17-to-1-r ... ve-success