I can't afford to ruin this agian. She came back!

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ok so I she wasn't really my girlfriend at the time but I knew she liked me. she told me she did, and I had strong feelings for her. then things got screwed up. she moved to Florida and I never saw her again.
but now she's come back to the town I live in. And, on top of that, she actually texted me! she said she still likes me, a lot. and my buddy says he knows she does too, because she was trying to contact me.
anyway, a long time ago she blocked me on Facebook. probably because of the issues we had. or more like, the issues she had with some guy down in Florida. I take full responsibility for anything done wrong on my part. anyway, I'm glad I didn't change my phone number. she's moving again, going to be 2 hours away from where I am. I don't know if she would have a method of transportation to visit me. sadly I do not have a way to visit her, and I feel bad about it. she made the huge effort of contacting me, it was a text message. then we texted for awhile. she really seems to want to be with me again. I went through a very emotional experience last time when I thought we were together. considering the kind of stuff we did. So, I guess what I'm trying to say is, I never lost any feelings for her. She was asking me if I would ever get married. which makes me think, she wants that. so maybe she will commit her self this time? Meaning hopefully she won't leave me like she did before. it's kinda hard to explain. I never hurt her, I was only trying to be good to her. but ya know, stuff can happened when you least expect it. it may be possible to see her again within a couple of days, before she moves again. but I'm not really expecting much. I know I should've told her how I felt in high school. she could have told me, but she said she wasn't sure if I liked her. To be honest, I never though she'd ever talk to me ever again. So, anyway, I hope all goes well. I really can't afford to screw this up. I'm totally willing to commit to her, I won't leave her, but I don't know if she'll abandon me again or not. Well, I was wondering if anyone has any tips or helpful advice. I really don't want this potential relationship to fall apart again... thanks for any advice.

Did the both of you ever have that feeling like you were in love with eachother? Obviously you cared about her and she did care for you. That's why you both are in contact with eachother again.

However, you might need this warning. The feeling to care for or love someone may never go away. The state of mind of being in love with a particular person usually disappears and a lot of times "being in love" just doesn't happen again.
In the two years, a lot has likely changed. I cant guarantee that the both of you will have much in common now.

as far as I know, she's been very busy. she had a lot to do today and didn't have time for me. but I understand she was helping her family pack stuff up because her dad and brother were moving. but of course, she's moving soon too. this coming Wednesday. but I think there's a good chance she'll keep in touch for at least a short while. I may get to see here on Monday. it's been a long time.

although I feel like a tried too hard to find a way to hangout with her. well, I guess I'll see what happens. I offered to help her and her family with the stuff they had to do. but at the time her dad wasn't available to ask. funny thing, even though she's an adult, she still lets her dad run her life.