jrjones9933 wrote:
"No comfort zone" works only if you want to brainwash someone, so it sounds like he's using the wrong tool. When all you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail. Mr. six needs to learn to accept you and talk and listen like a pair of rational adults, both of whom have some problems.
Agreed. It feels like a hammer too.
It upsets me because he was like my big brother before we started dating, years ago. He was somewhat of a stronghold to me. I have no one to Moo him back.
I try to think like what I suppose a woman of my age should, but I don't see the world like other people see. You know those 3 lill monkeys? "see no evil, speak no evil, hear no evil". I don't like to deal with people because they do all of those. He knows that.