Stop Complaining

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This forum is just full of people who constantly complain about not getting into relationships. I go on here mostly to make fun of said complainers, because I get so bored that doing so becomes entertaining. But this is getting old. On this thread, I would like people to list their good qualities and their bad qualities (be honest with yourselves). Lets be frank, you can say that it is other people at fault for why you are alone, but chances are, it is all on you. Recognize that fact.

I am not ugly.
I am not stunning.
I do not have a six pack.
I have really strong legs.
I know how to weld.
I know how to blacksmith if I had the tools to do so; I don't have the tools to blacksmith.
I don't have a car.
I live with my parents.
I am polite.
I am kind.
I am not very outdoorsy, but I love being outdoorsy.
I enjoy hunting.
I love cool cars.
I collect knives.
I don't always take a shower.
Sometimes I wear the same clothes.
I hate bugs.
I like machining.
I love to help people with computers.
I enjoy scary movies.
I like mma matches, mostly watching them.
I like to watch anime, occasionally, haven't watched a new episode in more than 4 months.
I love to camp.
I like to hike.
I like to eat game animals.
I like to go to the range.
I have dandruff.
I am not very good with names or birthdays.
I am fun to be around despite all this.
I like to swim when swimming.
I don't like to start the things I like to do, but once I do, I have a lot of fun.
I like cheese.
I can't think of anything else, you'd have to get to know me to find out more.

I am an extreme cynic
I cannot lie to make people feel better
I always think outside the box
I always make an impression on people
I know a little bit about everything (a Jack-of-all-trades of knowledge).
I can't pretend to be something I am not without it being an epic fail
I fear bugs, failure, and death (in that order)
I have issues with human contact
I can't relate to other people well
I help others without having to be asked to do so
I am an open book
I have no sense of time or direction

If you don't like me, there are plenty of reasons why. If you do, there are reasons why. But chances are, if you know me, you have a strong opinion of me.

So, you're complaining about people complaining? Just kidding.

On the plus side, I'm patient, compassionate and care deeply about the people I date, flaws and all. On the down side, I apparently don't express it well because I've been told I'm not affectionate enough.

I also have a lot going on in my life right now that would keep me from giving the best of myself to a relationship right now. (But, I'm currently single anyhow, so I guess the timing is working out well on that one. )

I try to stay in shape and am a pretty good cook, but on the down-side, I tend to cook health food that most guys wouldn't want to eat anyway. And, since I'm on a restricted diet, dining out with me is kind of a joke.

I don't nag others too much, but I tend to worry about my own issues a lot and that can make me no fun to be around at times.

Starting off by telling people how annoying their whining is? Oh, I can see this going well.

^ list your stuff

But I like to complain!! !
P.S. Can I join in

^ yes, so LIST YOUR STUFF

I’m probably one of those “complainers”, but I never said it’s someone else’s fault. There are quite a few big reasons why I’m light-years away from being relationship material, and I’ve pretty much always been.

^ list qualities.

"Lets be frank, you can say that it is other people at fault for why you are alone, but chances are, it is all on you. Recognize that fact."

It's my fault that my brain doesn't work correctly? I guess the same way it's the fault of somebody with cerebral palsy they can't walk.

Ah I do love how you word things lol. Okay then, a list:

*I can't admit my feelings.
*I can't stop punishing myself over small mistakes, which makes me come across as needy.
*I know how to live a normal life outside of a relationship, but struggle to do so inside of one.
*I have Aspergers.

Pretty short list!

Come over here and make me.

Good qualities: none. Bad: all the typical ones you can imagine (as long as they don’t involve experience, which I lack) and beyond.

There must be good stuff you can list, too.



You just made me laugh so hard I almost choked on a piece of hard-boiled egg.

That was indeed funny.