The First Time You Felt In Love

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03 Oct 2013, 11:42 am

I'd like to know when you first felt this insanity that we call love.

For me it was in the 5th grade, I had a crush on a middleschooler in the grade above me. She was beautiful, very popular, and completely out of my league. Anyways one day a kid who used to bully me outed the feelings I had for her right in front of her, this pissed me off and I nearly kicked the living s**t out of the bully. After that event though, for reasons even I can not fathom, my crush on her lapsed, and I just stopped having feelings for her. So who was your "first crush?"



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03 Oct 2013, 1:57 pm

Grade 2. I still remember her long, flowing black hair. Sadly, I soon found out she absolutely hated my guts, which was a common theme for every girl I had feelings for right up until 29. For some reason, the only girls I am attracted to downright despise me and the ones who are attracted to me are 'messed up' to put it politely.

I also had an crush on a Kindergarten student when I was in Grade 6 and was too afraid to admit it. Kinda ironic that the age gap between my present GF and myself is even higher (7 years).



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03 Oct 2013, 4:03 pm

Around the first grade, it was the girl that I recently re-connected with. I just knew it in my heart that she was for me. Fast forward 20 years, and here we are, meeting again. :)


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03 Oct 2013, 6:34 pm

iv'e liked girls since kindergarten

my first crush was a girl named Cassie



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03 Oct 2013, 6:59 pm

I thought I fell in love plenty of times in my "Nice guy" years as a teenager and young adult. 13-22.
I'd imagine love does feel the same way but the only difference being age. lol



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03 Oct 2013, 8:52 pm

last april when my wrong planet sweetheart :heart: rescued me.



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03 Oct 2013, 9:59 pm

Hard to pin-point for me. It's been so wildly different each time that I tend to forget the time before.


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03 Oct 2013, 10:18 pm

First crush? Lynda Carter as Wonder Woman :D
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04 Oct 2013, 12:00 am

7 years ago, when I met my best friend <3

she may never return my feelings, but I'm beyond grateful to have her in my life no matter the capacity :D


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04 Oct 2013, 9:09 am

One sided crushes and infatuation aren't real love.........

I realized that a few months ago when I fell for my GF and she fell for me........



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05 Oct 2013, 9:21 pm

I was about 16. I had some crushes before then, but I think they were pretty immature things. (You know, the normal things one goes through.) She was the first girl I felt such feelings for that I actually had the courage to really decide that I'd ask her out. Unfortunately, my parents wouldn't let me. It was very hard for me, knowing that I still felt this way about her, but I wasn't "allowed" to ever date her. She and her family soon moved across the country, and I began "falling out of love." We never communicated since then. (I'd always had this feelings that her friends convinced her I was "weird.") Although it was tough at first, it really wasn't that bad. Once we both got to university, we changed and developed more into ourselves. I became even more bookish and intellectual - finding many friends at university who are like me - and she became a party animal and somewhat anti-intellectual.



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06 Oct 2013, 5:18 pm

The very first time I was interested in someone was when I was 15.
I have never had something like a crush before that.
It took me almost 6 months to realize it was a crush, and I did when he got a new girlfriend. I felt very angry.
But they broke up after 4 months, but of course he's not interested in me yet :lol:
I don't think he will ever be...

My friend Julia thinks he likes me but he doesn't know that I am interested in him because I look cold towards him.
I think she's lying on the fact that he likes me back.



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06 Oct 2013, 10:01 pm

I had my first crush on a kid named Logan when I was in kindergarten. I had my first real interest in a guy when I was 16 on a guy who had become friends with. I tried to take things further, and everything went relly well for a few months. He suddenly stopped talking to me, and it was extremely painful. I've dated a few people since, but they both ended up being douchebags. I haven't ad a real crush on anyone for nearly two years.



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07 Oct 2013, 3:08 pm

I never really had a crush till after I fell in love at 20 with a girl I was friends with on Comedy Centrals's forums. We had some weird things in common as well as interest & I fell in love with her after she told me she liked me.


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07 Oct 2013, 3:14 pm

TeaEarlGreyHot wrote:
Hard to pin-point for me. It's been so wildly different each time that I tend to forget the time before.


I was 15, and she and I were in the same foster home. I wouldn't say it was actual love, more a deep affection I mistook as such. I could have fallen for her, however, if we hadn't been separated and lost contact.


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07 Oct 2013, 7:42 pm

I was 10. A popular girl named Christine, who was in special ed. with me, always said hello to me every morning before class started. I still remember her wavy brown hair, her blue eyes, and her infectious laugh. Her mother still works at the same school where my mom works at to this day.

A friend of Christine, named Katie, who was also in special education, reconnected with me two years ago and that's how Katie and I became a couple. However, I'm glad I dumped Katie during the summer, realizing how much of a b***h she was.


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