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Experience the unexpected events circulating around me I have been pondering consistently. Living out on the outskirts of my city has helped the process; being near the countryside--and able to glance at the stars at night without the sounds of traffic, generators, etc. Maybe that sounded a little too sentimental? Lol
I didn't gaze at the stars every night. But I have been progressively coming to the conclusion of not finding a girlfriend. Haven't ran into many decent women to my liking--and if I did--they either don't want me (which I respect) or are taken. Actually through this entire process of trying to date--I have ran into more women willing to drop their panties within 5 days, more than decent ones. My thought process is changing. I am content with being single. I don't think I have an advantage in any position in dating. A great personality only gets you so far. I think the best way is to stay honest with myself. I'm all worn out when it comes to the dating thing. I can account to many factors on why I am single, but cannot take it personally. Being single only sucks when you perpetuate the delusion of defining yourself by your relationships.

Where are you going to approach women? I'm interested.

Maybe you're just approaching or meeting the wrong type of women but please don't give up on love or women, try not to become cynical and keep your head up, the right one will come a long.

I have tried not giving up a lot. I really think I might just be alone. As I type this now my family are all going out with their significant other. I'm home alone. Nothing new. And I just got into an argument with a girl who I thought meant well. But she's just like a few others I've tried to date. She only liked how I treated her and boosted her ego, she could have gave a damn less about my feelings. I don't meet women at bars or clubs--as I see wasted women as being unattractive. But I am really getting fed up.