GossipLeak: what tame things women say about men?

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Inspired from Tea post on the other thread:

Spit it out ladies!


What do women say about guys' looks, their bodies, their hair, their shoe size....? Share concrete examples of bad or good gossip, tame things...all behind the guys' backs.

Men talk about women, too. Are y'all willing to spill the beans?

That's my thread, make your own.

I usually tell about my partner the same stuff, that I as well say to him, when talking with him. ^^

Maybe you should be more precise and mention, that you are less interested in western woman in general, and more about western "bitchie"-woman in general? ^^

Can't you simply participate in a single thread just for the fun of it without making silly assumptions and judgements and pissing drama? ^^
Thank you. ^^

Last edited by The_Face_of_Boo on 25 Oct 2013, 4:11 am, edited 1 time in total.

I guess I should have said what I did on this thread:

I met two ladies who decided they would openly discuss about the size of their boyfriends' penises, and also how "good" they were in bed. Really disturbing, lol.

Easily. The moment you are not adressing me, by generalizing something about "the general western woman", I wouldnt know, why to post my oppinion, when I am not adressed.

^^ the thread is inspired from the "many men would be shocked and possibly horrified at what women say about men. " part, not the western women part of the quote.

For some reason I'm not shocked at all. Actually this is common sense.

In my experience, it depends on how drunk they are.

From what I understand, we're a bunch of misogynistic patriarchs.

In my experience, women usually don't talk about looks beyond a generic "he's cute (if young)/"handsome"(if middle aged). There may be the ocassional remark of liking/not liking a particular hairstyle. But mostly when men aren't around (and I am around) women talk about men's behaviour. In a miixed age group (young women and older women like me), the young women will talk about a behaviour seen on a date or in a relationship and the older women will discuss if that is a positive or negative sign for a long term relationship.

For the record, "too nice" has never been used as a relationship disqualifier. Never. Not once. I've been having these discussions with other women since the early 80's and no one has ever said "too nice". If "nice" comes up in a negative context, it always starts as "he's nice but..........." and then what follows will be some disqualifier such as "he doesn't want a serious relationship, just a FWB" or "he still seems stuck on his ex" or "he talks non-stop about sports". But it's not too common for "nice" to come into these conversations. The behaviours discussed (and it is almost always behaviour, not looks or car or money) tend to be very specific, not generic.

I don't know, I shall have to be more observant of this particular pastime.

I'll get back to you in due course with my findings.

If you have the (dubious) privilege of working in predominately all-female environments over a period of time, nothing will shock and horrify as to what women can say about men, and how they can behave towards men. Now, of course, all women are different, but when 'the girls' are together in their stupidity, and the moment is right, they will let rip in ways that very few straight men can match.

Sometimes it's understandable - many have to go home to the same idiot day after day, and a group moan brings everyone together against the 'common enemy'. Well, it's preferrable to listening to the usual baby conversation. Or the holiday conversation.

It's just another way of passing the time and projecting one's bitterness, really.

This is much closer to what I was referring to in the quote. I've been told by many men they hold back on this sort of thing quite a bit around women because they don't want to get slapped, but the truth is women are just as bad.

Yeah... we're just as perverted.

when surrounded by the opposite sex, women are under pressure to act almost virginal. It is ridiculously easy to gain a reputation as a slut, so most women walk a fine tightrope to save their social status. Even other women can be very quick to judge. However, when surrounded by others of the same gender, who they have a relationship with (friend, mother etc) these social rules are a lot more flexible. From my own experience, women talk about technique, their personal love lives (including sexual prowess from boyfriends etc), horniness levels, masturbation, sex aids and attractive males, including what they would do to these guys, in detail. Part of the bonding experience for women is intimate sharing, from everything from your life story to the disgusting stuff. It makes sense that sex is a big part of this.