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17 Oct 2013, 9:22 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pYiodE-eWRQ[/youtube]

Once again player supreme speaks the truth. If you have the time it's worth listening to.

Notice how @ :55 player supreme sais that Women under the age of 30 tend to brush of the shy guys & nuke the nerds

I suggest any aspie males watch this guys videos if they want to improve their game.



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17 Oct 2013, 9:39 am

I can't watch videos at work but based on his obnoxious name this sounds like Pick-up Artist BS..........

Most Aspies here don't want to be Players. They want to find a relationship with someone who will accept them for who they are. How will pretending to be someone else help that?



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17 Oct 2013, 9:45 am

You are wrong. In his video he talks about how pick up artist tactics don't work.

Also being a player is simply being a man that is desired by multiple women. Why would an aspie not want that?



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17 Oct 2013, 10:09 am

If these "multiple women" don't actually like you for you (just whatever dudebro you're pretending to be), then they have no value for a real relationship. Zero. Zip. Nadda.

How do you not get that? When are you supposed to reveal your deception? Your honeymoon? After she's squirted out a kid or two and is stuck with a phoney husband because she stayed home to raise the kids and has no income? How long does your con run, Lost?



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17 Oct 2013, 10:28 am

lost561 wrote:

Notice how @ :55 player supreme sais that Women under the age of 30 tend to brush of the shy guys & nuke the nerds

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So what if they do? There is nothing inherently nice about being shy or nerdy. There is nothing inherently bad about being loud, extroverted and confident.

The "faking nice to get laid" trope has been done to death. But there is another false premise that I see a lot in the nice guy/jerk false dichotomy. It's the premise that being shy or nerdy= nice and being loud and brash=jerk. It's not that I think that there is something not nice about being shy or nerdy. It's that those qualities have nothing to do with whether a man is nice or not. The young women who prefer brash extroverts may indeed outnumber the young women who prefer shy nerds. But it's time to stop slandering those brash extroverts as jerks or bad boys. And stop equating shy with nice. Nice people can be introverts or extroverts. Nice people can be nerdy or mainstream. Jerks can also be either.



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17 Oct 2013, 10:34 am

@geeko

Who sais anything about being a con?

Again you have the totally wrong impression. This guy talks about how you can't pretend to be somebody you aren't in some of his other videos as well.

This guy talks about human psychology. It's educational information for men who want to improve their game.



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17 Oct 2013, 10:38 am

Janissy wrote:

But it's time to stop slandering those brash extroverts as jerks or bad boys. And stop equating shy with nice. Nice people can be introverts or extroverts. Nice people can be nerdy or mainstream. Jerks can also be either.


I never said that jerks had to be loud and nice guys had to be shy. Neither does player supreme, but the majority of the time the guys who can't get laid ARE quiet nice guys TM. I agree with this comment though. There is an art to it all.



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17 Oct 2013, 10:40 am

One is only in competition with oneself.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHWjlCaIrQo[/youtube]



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17 Oct 2013, 10:42 am

Janissy wrote:
lost561 wrote:

Notice how @ :55 player supreme sais that Women under the age of 30 tend to brush of the shy guys & nuke the nerds

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So what if they do? There is nothing inherently nice about being shy or nerdy. There is nothing inherently bad about being loud, extroverted and confident.

The "faking nice to get laid" trope has been done to death. But there is another false premise that I see a lot in the nice guy/jerk false dichotomy. It's the premise that being shy or nerdy= nice and being loud and brash=jerk. It's not that I think that there is something not nice about being shy or nerdy. It's that those qualities have nothing to do with whether a man is nice or not. The young women who prefer brash extroverts may indeed outnumber the young women who prefer shy nerds. But it's time to stop slandering those brash extroverts as jerks or bad boys. And stop equating shy with nice. Nice people can be introverts or extroverts. Nice people can be nerdy or mainstream. Jerks can also be either.


Yes. Exactly.
My friend is a loud, obnoxious ass. Total extrovert. Most people find him to be a little too much to handle. He sort of makes fun of people sometimes, but in a joking way, not a mean way, and its often misconstrued. But he would give the shirt off his back to anyone who needed it. And he would back anyone if they were in the right.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:36 am

octobertiger wrote:
One is only in competition with oneself.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NHWjlCaIrQo[/youtube]



thats a funny video, but we obviously are on totally different levels.

you are content with your life dating radical feminists and nerdy women on the spectrum, thats great. Not everybody is like that here.

I target certain types of women that you don't target, which if you watched the video (if evident you didn't) than you would agree that the video was indeed a good video on attraction towards bad guys.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:45 am

I'm curious. What is your problem with feminists (who are, after all, simply men and women who believe that women are not inferior to men)?



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17 Oct 2013, 11:46 am

Marcia wrote:
I'm curious. What is your problem with feminists (who are, after all, simply men and women who believe that women are not inferior to men)?


ok, I worded that wrongly. "radical feminists" is what I really meant.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:51 am

I've watched some of it. Your guy says nothing new. He brings nothing new to the table at all. So I kind of switched it off.

The money-making maching that Weber created (and I don't mean Dr Pepper) is still alive today. People's frustrations are being exploited by a shallow version of Darwinism crudely applied.

Like most things, sometimes it is useful and sometimes it is constraining.

The video is about girls and boys. And game. Yet the thread title is about women and guys. Big difference.

Shouldn't this be on a PUA website?

We are on totally different levels, yeah.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:55 am

Geekonychus wrote:
I can't watch videos at work but based on his obnoxious name this sounds like Pick-up Artist BS..........

Most Aspies here don't want to be Players. They want to find a relationship with someone who will accept them for who they are. How will pretending to be someone else help that?

The biggest manwhore I know has aspergers, he is my friend but he screws a lot of women and has screwed over a lot of women. The idea of bad and nice boys is just a bad excuses, I don't believe in it. I am single because I am a cynical narcissistic as*hole but I feel good about it so I don't care all too much.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:59 am

octobertiger wrote:
The video is about girls and boys. And game. Yet the thread title is about women and guys. Big difference.

Shouldn't this be on a PUA website?

We are on totally different levels, yeah.


This video is definately not about girls and boys. Unless you consider every woman that is under the age of 30 a little girl and every guy who is successfully meeting women and getting into relationships and getting laid when he is younger a boy.

You obviously didn't watch the video long enough to hear what he had to say about Pick up artist propaganda not working at all..

Its ok, I understand you and Geeko have an agenda because you don't agree with what I say or my philosophy on dating and attraction.

stay the f**k out of my threads if you don't have anything constructive to say and want to just give this video a false identity so that people won't watch it.



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17 Oct 2013, 11:59 am

Geekonychus wrote:
If these "multiple women" don't actually like you for you (just whatever dudebro you're pretending to be), then they have no value for a real relationship. Zero. Zip. Nadda.

How do you not get that? When are you supposed to reveal your deception? Your honeymoon? After she's squirted out a kid or two and is stuck with a phoney husband because she stayed home to raise the kids and has no income? How long does your con run, Lost?


The con run lasts until you wake up next to someone and realise that you don't want to be there, and you've been chasing something that you never really wanted in the first place. Or they realise the same thing and clear off.

As some of us know, the mask we have to portray to the outside world is difficult enough to keep up. Why be constrained by yet another one.