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billiscool
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25 Oct 2013, 1:54 pm

so,I have a female co-worker,couple days ago,
she came up to me,and start talking to me,and
grab and hug my arm/bicep.

yesterday,when I leaving,she wanted to give me
hug. and so I hugged her.

I know her for a while,but dang,she's very flirty,
when she's talk to me,she stands an inch from
my face. she always talk to me.and always
touching me.

I have a feeling she's likes me.



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25 Oct 2013, 2:32 pm

Does she do this with any other guys in the office?

What about her makes you think she's a good fit for you?



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25 Oct 2013, 3:45 pm

Does she always smile towards you? It does sound like she could possibly like you but I wouldn't jump the gun yet. What kind of stuff is she telling you and wanting to talk about?



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26 Oct 2013, 12:47 pm

It does seem to be obvious that she is flirting. Heck have you asked her out yet?



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26 Oct 2013, 1:15 pm

Stalk wrote:
It does seem to be obvious that she is flirting. Heck have you asked her out yet?


^^^^this



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26 Oct 2013, 1:59 pm

Stalk wrote:
It does seem to be obvious that she is flirting. Heck have you asked her out yet?


nope,but she has flirt with me,for a long time.it's just this last week,
she really became touchy feely with me.

she was hugging my arm,smiling,very happy.
I have danced with her in past,and she wanted
me to go on vacation with her at one time.
and she has invited me to go to her place,at
one time too.when she talks to me,she stands an inch
from me.



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26 Oct 2013, 4:38 pm

does she do that to other dudes? Or she could be flirty to you cuz shes trying to use you.

Or she just likes you.



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26 Oct 2013, 4:42 pm

She likes you. Go for the kill and ask her out for lunch during work :)



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26 Oct 2013, 6:25 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
She likes you. Go for the kill and ask her out for lunch during work :)


I would I like to be a causal fwb with her(if possible) or a be ''special''type of
friend with her.



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26 Oct 2013, 6:30 pm

billiscool wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
She likes you. Go for the kill and ask her out for lunch during work :)


I would I like to be a causal fwb with her(if possible) or a be ''special''type of
friend with her.


Please get that established up front.


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26 Oct 2013, 6:42 pm

IlovemyAspie wrote:

Please get that established up front.


I'll try.



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27 Oct 2013, 8:39 am

billiscool wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
She likes you. Go for the kill and ask her out for lunch during work :)


I would I like to be a causal fwb with her(if possible) or a be ''special''type of
friend with her.




What's the difference between a FWB and "special" type of friend??? :?



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27 Oct 2013, 12:32 pm

MadeUnderground wrote:


What's the difference between a FWB and "special" type of friend??? :?


fwb=quasi-girlfriend
''special'' friend=a very close friend.



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27 Oct 2013, 12:37 pm

You're just making that up to feel better about yourself for wanting to do it.
If you want FWB, that's your call. Who is anyone to judge. Just be sure to make it clear at some point that you're not after a relationship but "other stuff" is on the cards (and no, don't do this over lunch).



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27 Oct 2013, 12:43 pm

Some people do get right in your face when they talk to you. I don't know whether she is flirting with you.


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27 Oct 2013, 12:51 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
You're just making that up to feel better about yourself for wanting to do it.
If you want FWB, that's your call. Who is anyone to judge. Just be sure to make it clear at some point that you're not after a relationship but "other stuff" is on the cards (and no, don't do this over lunch).


That's why I said get things established up front.


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