So depressed... Break up.., Can't find new gf?

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OK, well, it's a long story. I am very attractive and complimented often. I live in NYC suburbs and the women here are very stuck up and standoffish.

A 34 year old attractive woman from FL saw me comment on a FB page and came on to me saying how attractive I was, I added her.

I met her months later and we clicked. She loves me and vice versa, but after months of distance, paranoia and arguing it broke off. We hadn't had sex in over 6 months and she is very attractive and she has moved on. I miss her very much. I really hate my life, I am 23 and oh so lonely. I noticed in FL women would glance at you, it is totally different here.

I'm so depressed and my parents don't understand. I live at home and I just sit in bed all day, I am getting skinny from not eating, I have become sucidal. We talked every day and night. Not anymore. I love and miss her so much, I just want to go to Florida and see her! I have been crying for weeks.

She was also my first, she has been with 30 other men and I know she will find someone asap. I am so sick. She was my rock. We talked of marriage and kids.

It went so smoothly because we talked for months before meeting. If I had seen her in person I would have thought she didn't like me. I am so sad. Where can I post personals? I'm very lonely. Please tell me of good dating or casual sex sites?

Ouch

If you are still this upset about her and you are missing her very much, now is not the time to try and look for somebody else. What you are describing is the desire to substitute her absence with a "rebound" relationship. That would not be a good idea.

You're not over her. You are not ready for a relationship with another woman until you get over her. What you need to do instead of looking for a new relationship is just grieve her loss. Breakups can feel like a bereavement. You need to let time heal your wound. Sorry for the awful cliche, but it's true.