Dating a Girl from HS?

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Hey there. In June I received a message from a girl asking me if I went to the HS. I told her no, and that I was home educated, and I am now in college. Anyways, she is 17, I am 19. She seems like an artsy type. Anyways she replied and we have been messaging back and forth since October 23. I never thought anything would happen, but now we have a date for Thursday. She might be bringing her friend. my question is do you have any advice? (At first I kinda wrote her off thinking she would quit messaging me eventually, but out of boredom I decided to continue.). She at least used to be in theater.

Why is she bringing her friend? Are they going to fight over you, or do you get a choice?

(don't laugh - it happens)

Haha or "networking" . Actually she said it was for safety. I am kinda split. I am not sure if she does not have experience, or whether it is a s**t test. I am a tad worried about the latter, since I don't act well, but they do (at least she does). What interested me the most was her interest in jazz (which I like casually and go to bed with sometimes). I am split on how to feel about it.

Yeah. I mean, I'm a bit split on jazz, too. What did they call it in the Commitments, musical mastur...

Oh, right, I see. Ehem. Just play the situation the way it seems to unfold. No point worrying about tests or not. Anyway, who says you have to be passive, and on the receiving end?

Chances are, girl #2 is there for security, and will disappear very quickly if everything is okay. Or she's a backseat driver. Or they do tag-team dating. Or she wants a free meal, too. Look, who knows?

If you're in any doubt, you could say to both of them "Just to get it out in the open: I'm sorry to disappoint you, but I'm not looking for a threesome". That is, if they have that sort of humor...

Well I said that my friend couldn't make it after I said it was alright. Then I realized perhaps she is inexperienced yada yada yada. If she insist, I will let her. She mentioned about being insecure on her profile, so it could be possible that she is either inexperienced or something. DK .