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Hi Im new and bad at spleling Im an aspie and female I would really appreiciate some info from all you aspies out there.
My Bf left me 18 months ago and he has a partner theyre gonna have kids he lives the other side of the world from me and I fele deeply hurt still and angry but at the same time in love with him , the pain is in part unberable will his ever stop ? has anyone hurt this long before and reoverd?
Thanks

In general I find the answer to this question to be: sort of. It gets to a point where you can live your life again and persue other prospects/people but you may never REALLY get over it.

Hop,
You may never get over this guy. Like what Aaron said, pursue other interests to keep yourself busy. If you never get over him, then you will indulge in a fantasy realm, believing he is still with you.

You may not "get over it"...but it does get better. Try to keep busy with other things as much as possible...sometimes it helps "not" to have too much time to think.

I have had that problem myself--numerous times.

Tim

Well i had that exact problem, how to fix it? umm well keep busy eg. doing your hobbies, hanging out with friends and familly or even just walking around a shopping center that always works for me, and another thing thats works is getting a new partner, um yes a new partner works even if its just online you gotta move on.