I can still hit on girls

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since my female friend is just my quasi-girlfriend,
were not in a official relationship,I can still
hit on pretty girls,everything work out well.

lucky me.

No offense, but if I was her, that would piss me off and the relationship would not go any further. Because if you did that when we were unofficially dating, why should I trust you when we are officially dating? Tread lightly here, or you could end up in a lot of trouble.

Good for you (seriously).

Im doing nothing wrong,she's not my official girlfriend.

If the relationship is casual (not official, IE exclusive) you are both free to date others and to hit on others. As long as it's clear to and agreed to by both of you, no problem.

WP is not twitter, bill.

Emphatically seconded...

Riveting tale, old chap.

Isn't this like the first girl who has paid any interest in you?

Are you sure you want to blow that by flirting with other girls? Even if your not officially together, maybe she wants to move in that direction, and if she sees you flirting, she might be put off.

Remember the story of Icarus.

^This. Don't blow a good thing.

I dunno Bill, why hit on girls that won't like you when you have someone decent enough that already does like you?

As the other posters have alluded to, a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

So... what you're also saying is that the woman who you find attractive is presently free to hit on, seduce, and enthusiastically have a go on all sorts of hot guys ?
I mean, it's not like you're really in a relationship together... right ?

Yeah, she's a free agent. She should totally do it.

It kind of goes with the assumption. Though I dare say such a situation would actually turn me on. The main reason for that is making people happy turns me on. If it's what she wanted and she genuinely enjoyed it, there was implicit trust between both, and she took appropriate precautions to avoid STI's and unwanted pregnancy, that would actually make a sexual relationship work better for me in some ways, and I'd enjoy talking to her about her conquests with other men/women. It's the same while having sex, I can't get turned on if the woman isn't enjoying it - and you can just tell whether she's enjoying it by how her body responds.

This would still hold true, even if I didn't get any action with other people. I've never fully understood monogamy, I don't believe humans were designed to be monogamous.

Key points in bold. I've occasionally mused about the idea of cuckolding so that I'm not genetically involved in the child's genetics, to reduce the chance of children having AS.

I can see that this might be seen as unusual/unsavoury to some, and I apologise - but I'm just being blunt and truthful. But the most important thing is that it's a two way thing and what both genuinely want, and that one isn't bending over backwards for the benefit of the other. I'd never try to tell a partner they should want to have sex with other people, because that's up to them.

hitting on girls is fun.something to do.



nope,there's been others before