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billiscool
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04 Dec 2013, 6:55 pm

so,my best female friend,at times,she very fun,very talkative,
very touchy,but other times,she mad,doesn't want to talk,
highly offensive of everything.It's get me upset,it feel like Im
doing something wrong. my ex gf also at time was mad
about something.no matter what I say,she just get mad.

my female friend,got me upset today,she was mad about
something,very cranky,I never did anything to piss her off.
hopefully,she be happier next time.

it stupid,doesn't feel nice.
does this happen to other guys too(or girls with their b.f)



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04 Dec 2013, 8:07 pm

People have mood swings, and/or sh***y days sometimes, not necessarily anything to do with the people they're around at the time.



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04 Dec 2013, 8:14 pm

First of all, how old is she?


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04 Dec 2013, 8:42 pm

billiscool wrote:
so,my best female friend,at times,she very fun,very talkative,
very touchy,but other times,she mad,doesn't want to talk,
highly offensive of everything.It's get me upset,it feel like Im
doing something wrong. my ex gf also at time was mad
about something.no matter what I say,she just get mad.

my female friend,got me upset today,she was mad about
something,very cranky,I never did anything to piss her off.
hopefully,she be happier next time.

it stupid,doesn't feel nice.
does this happen to other guys too(or girls with their b.f)


Yes people do have mood swings AND women have timesof the mmonth that she's more sensitive than others. I personally have PMDD and the 3-4 days before my period I can be like a completely different person if something triggers me into a bad mood or anxiety.



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04 Dec 2013, 9:34 pm

Dynania wrote:
First of all, how old is she?


early 50's or late 40's



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04 Dec 2013, 9:37 pm

billiscool wrote:
Dynania wrote:
First of all, how old is she?


early 50's or late 40's


Okay so forget the PMS/PMDD angle. Maybe she's going through menopause??



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04 Dec 2013, 10:56 pm

- Menstrual
- Menopause
- Overstimulated by caffeine, sugar, diet drugs, other drugs.
- Not enough food due to dieting.--This definitely makes people nasty. My sister was like that when dieting.
- Over stressed by things in their life
- Over tired by trying to do to much
- Anger that the boyfriend or spouse can't read their minds.

Only time can cure the first two items. Cutting down or out the stimulants will help. Eating healthier instead of eating less will help with a dieter. Reducing the amount of things one has taken on will help reduce stress, and maybe provide more time to sleep, which will reduce being over tired. The last item is caused by the fact that many women think that if they give vague hints about something that they want, their boyfriend or spouse will somehow magically be able to figure out what it is that the woman wants, and comply with that wish. For some reason many women have an aversion to direct communication of what they want. Then they get mad at the man for not being able to decode often extremely vague hints. I am a woman myself, but have noticed this among women. And yes it is enough to drive men crazy.

Fellow ladies, please be direct in your communications! See examples below.

Honey take out the garbage/cat/dog/etc.
Honey, please fix the widget.
Honey, lets go to the store/doctor/my mother's house/Hawaii/etc.
Honey, lets pick up a pizza/piano/marriage license/etc.
Honey, your father died/dog ate your report/kid broke arm/etc.

Please be direct. It's really not that hard. And remember, men are not mind readers.



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05 Dec 2013, 3:24 am

That's one of the oldest questions on earth.
Completely baffling to us men.
And I don't think women even know why they themselves get mad.
They just do.


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05 Dec 2013, 11:50 am

Because theyre always mad! Give them chocolate and lots of hugs and they will forget what they are mad about!


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05 Dec 2013, 12:47 pm

AspieOtaku wrote:
Because theyre always mad! Give them chocolate and lots of hugs and they will forget what they are mad about!


lol, they are the hulk inside, they need to constantly suppress him :lol:



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05 Dec 2013, 12:49 pm

Could be hormonal changes, or just having a bad day.



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05 Dec 2013, 4:47 pm

Do a diary, if you find she changes into a crazy Woman at the same time each month, then she hasn't reached the Menopause yet and it is her hormones.

Sometimes I wonder if because Adam wasn't deceived in the Garden of Eden, but deliberately followed his wife into sin because he wanted her rather than to be obedient to God, that God punishes Man by turning beautiful sweet natured young Women into hair-trigger attack dogs the morning after the wedding?



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05 Dec 2013, 4:54 pm

Because you tell them stupid pick up lines.



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05 Dec 2013, 6:35 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Because you tell them stupid pick up lines.


Yes, this seems the most likely reason.



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05 Dec 2013, 7:55 pm

Stalk wrote:
AspieOtaku wrote:
Because theyre always mad! Give them chocolate and lots of hugs and they will forget what they are mad about!


lol, they are the hulk inside, they need to constantly suppress him :lol:


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05 Dec 2013, 9:48 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Because you tell them stupid pick up lines.


nope.not to her