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me and this girl are geting along really well and i think she really likes me but i dont know when it is the right time to ask her out and also how do you make it easier to ask the question

If she does like you, chances are she is a little frustrated that you haven't asked her out on a date yet. A girl friend/neighbour of mine has told me that she gets that way when a guy that she likes doesn't ask her out. I hope some other girls here can back that up, because I can't.

From a guys perspective.... there usually is no right time to ask. But if she is making it obvious she likes you (flirtatious, touchy-feely, laughs at jokes you say even when you're not funny, suggests something she would like to do, etc), ask out right away. If unsure, ask and see what response you get (either through phone call or face to face.)

i took her to starbucks and got her coffee during her lunch brakeso i think i got the whole date thing down.

i am very new to the whole dateing thing i had a girlfriend once but she burned me and i have been on the defense for a long time

Well, try and keep things personal off the forums as it may help you. Sometimes I forget about it because there is the inevitable that someone you know may read something you wrote about them on here. In the event you need to have a private conversation, I would recommend private messages with someone from this website. I would pick the person you would feel most comfortable opening up to based on the forum postings you have read.

Good for you on the Starbuck's date. You have done good there. As for asking her out, you have already done that it seems. Now you need to keep showing her that interest and keep asking her to do things. Eventually she may ask you to do something. but don't panic, just go with it.

ok thanks and will do in the future