Attraction can be difficult to gauge.

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kaedatiger
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15 Jan 2014, 2:35 am

It can get pretty tiresome monitoring my physiological responses in order to know if I'm attracted to someone. NTs have it easy in this respect.



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15 Jan 2014, 4:19 am

Hey, that's true for me too. I have to be in their presence for a very long time before I can make up my mind before I like them.



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15 Jan 2014, 5:30 am

I can do the friend thing easily, I can do the find them attractive easily. This "chemistry" thing they sometimes feel I don't know how to do it.


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18 Jan 2014, 12:45 pm

KingofKaboom wrote:
I can do the friend thing easily, I can do the find them attractive easily. This "chemistry" thing they sometimes feel I don't know how to do it.


I always just figured that "chemistry" meant pheromones and oxytocin.