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aspiesandra27
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19 Jan 2014, 3:31 pm

Male Aspies: do you like receiving them from the person you like?



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19 Jan 2014, 3:34 pm

Yes :oops:

I might act like I don't, but secretly I do lol.



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19 Jan 2014, 3:36 pm

Yes, yes, oh dear God yes!


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19 Jan 2014, 3:37 pm

JanuaryMan wrote:
Yes :oops:

I might act like I don't, but secretly I do lol.


Awwww that's so sweet.

Would you ever go to the point to tell them you don't, when you secretly do, then?



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19 Jan 2014, 3:41 pm

aspiesandra27 wrote:
JanuaryMan wrote:
Yes :oops:

I might act like I don't, but secretly I do lol.


Awwww that's so sweet.

Would you ever go to the point to tell them you don't, when you secretly do, then?
No, probably not that far. I just thank or return the favor these days. In the past though I would just lock up!



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19 Jan 2014, 3:47 pm

If they're sincere, simple and direct - and I believe they are based in truth, yes.

If they sound like empty fawning flattery, or exaggerations of reality, no, that makes me feel as though I'm being mocked.



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19 Jan 2014, 5:32 pm

In the moment they feel a bit saccharine but after I do.