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Jamesy
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21 Jan 2014, 4:25 pm

I am 24 years and I am aware that the peak of attractiveness comes to an end at this stage of your life

Here is a list describe my physical appearance

Eye colour: hazel
Hair colour: thick brown hair (a middle parting hairstyle)
Height: 5ft7
Weight: 140 pounds
Body type: I am very fit and do a lot cardio exercise but I don't have a lot of muscle though
Nose size: larger than average/big
Skin type: generally white although I do go rather brown if I spend time outside. Have some freckles left from my childhood. My skin has a tendency to go dry (especially in the winter)
Ear size: medium
Leg size: short/strong legs
Hands: my hands can go very dry especially in the winter
Teeth: quite crooked since childhood but people say I have a nice smile: colour of my teeth is yellowy white.
Body hair: yes :)
Gait: I do walk a bit weird or occasionally on tip toes
Facial hair: mostly keep any facial hair trimmed and some stubble
Lips:medium/big
Eyebrows: thick eyebrows
Kneck: quite a long kneck
Jaw: my jaw can look a decent size although I am developing a bit of a double chin
Forehead shape: flat/normal
Dress sense: I dress in a certain way cause I want to be the centre of attention
Hygiene: keep very good hygeine, shower everyday and never leave the house without cologne.

Personality description
Highly intelligent
Very reserved
Fiery tempered
Primadonna
Quiet
Annoying
Poor communication/ social skills
Not good at reading emotion
Long term unemployed
Attention seeker or wanting to be the centre of attention
I have Aspergers
Lack of eye contact
Lack of empathy
I am a weird person
Get stressed and anxious easily
Control freak
Prone to jealousy
Depressed
Sad
Moody
Paranoid



Just putting this info down for fun lol

Famous people who I have been told I look like
Keanu reeves, lionel messi, david beckham, Tom cruise, Michael j fox, danny dyer, trevor eve, Jim Carey, Ewan Mcgregor and john cena.






From the above description can you point any aspects of my personality/physical appearance that might make me unattractive to the opposite sex?



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21 Jan 2014, 4:28 pm

Is 24 really the peak? :(



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21 Jan 2014, 4:35 pm

jerry00 wrote:
Is 24 really the peak? :(


Yeah apparently physical attractiveness is at its peak between ages 14-25



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21 Jan 2014, 4:35 pm

Jamesy wrote:
From the above description can you point any aspects of my personality/physical appearance that might make me unattractive to the opposite sex?


This post makes you seem vain and shallow.



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21 Jan 2014, 4:35 pm

Jamesy wrote:
I am 24 years and I am aware that the peak of attractiveness comes to an end at this stage of your life

Here is a list describe my physical appearance

Eye colour: hazel
Hair colour: thick brown hair (a middle parting hairstyle)
Height: 5ft7
Weight: 140 pounds
Body type: I am very fit and do a lot cardio exercise but I don't have a lot of muscle though
Nose size: larger than average/big
Skin type: generally white although I do go rather brown if I spend time outside. Have some freckles left from my childhood. My skin has a tendency to go dry (especially in the winter)
Ear size: medium
Leg size: short/strong legs
Hands: my hands can go very dry especially in the winter
Teeth: quite crooked since childhood but people say I have a nice smile: colour of my teeth is yellowy white.
Body hair: yes :)
Gait: I do walk a bit weird or occasionally on tip toes
Facial hair: mostly keep any facial hair trimmed and some stubble
Lips:medium/big
Eyebrows: thick eyebrows
Kneck: quite a long kneck
Jaw: my jaw can look a decent size although I am developing a bit of a double chin
Forehead shape: flat/normal
Dress sense: I dress in a certain way cause I want to be the centre of attention

Personality description
Highly intelligent
Very reserved
Fiery tempered
Primadonna
Quiet
Annoying
Poor communication/ social skills
Not good at reading emotion
Long term unemployed
Attention seeker or wanting to be the centre of attention
I have Aspergers
Lack of eye contact
Lack of empathy
I am a weird person
Get stressed and anxious easily
Control freak
Prone to jealousy




Just putting this info down for fun lol

Famous people who I have been told I look like
Keanu reeves, lionel messi, david beckham, Tom cruise, Michael j fox, danny dyer and trevor eve






From the above description can you point any aspects of my personality/physical appearance that might make me unattractive to the opposite sex?


physical: you are short, walk funny and likely dress in an off putting manner
personality: seriously? there is nothing there that's positive, surely you could have at least done 50/50 split of traits? I mean, highly intelligent is a positive trait, of course, but even if you were a genius, that would only work on those women who are into super clever men and don't care about all the negatives that come with it. Social skills have to be paramount for dating because dating and relationships are a social activity. Why is it that people here keep forgetting about this??



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21 Jan 2014, 4:37 pm

that you think your physical qualities is what attracts the opposite sex.



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21 Jan 2014, 4:37 pm

So what if I am short? Short girls can get dates so why not short men?



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21 Jan 2014, 4:42 pm

I hear your "24 year olds are at their peak of attractiveness" and I raise you Mark Harmon

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21 Jan 2014, 4:42 pm

Jamesy wrote:
So what if I am short? Short girls can get dates so why not short men?


You didn't ask whether or not you could get dates; you asked which of your characteristics might be off-putting to the opposite sex.



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21 Jan 2014, 4:54 pm

starkid wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
So what if I am short? Short girls can get dates so why not short men?


You didn't ask whether or not you could get dates; you asked which of your characteristics might be off-putting to the opposite sex.



So what characteristics of me do you think are off putting?



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21 Jan 2014, 4:57 pm

Jamesy wrote:

So what characteristics of me do you think are off putting?


I've already answered that question. See my post above.



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21 Jan 2014, 5:00 pm

starkid wrote:
Jamesy wrote:

So what characteristics of me do you think are off putting?


I've already answered that question. See my post above.



And girls sense that when they meet me right?



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21 Jan 2014, 5:08 pm

You have only put 1 positive point in the personality category. Either you need to work on that or there are more positives but you lack self esteem and don't see them - in which case I would work on that.



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21 Jan 2014, 5:13 pm

Jamesy wrote:
And girls sense that when they meet me right?


I don't know. It's possible if you talk about your looks a lot.



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21 Jan 2014, 5:18 pm

being a control freak and prone to jealousy are two of the warning signs that someone may turn out to be physically abusive. if I found out these things about you, I'd run, not walk, away. try to raise your self-esteem, so you can not be jealous and so you can feel comfortable with others having their own ways of doing things.



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21 Jan 2014, 5:34 pm

cathylynn wrote:
being a control freak and prone to jealousy are two of the warning signs that someone may turn out to be physically abusive. if I found out these things about you, I'd run, not walk, away. try to raise your self-esteem, so you can not be jealous and so you can feel comfortable with others having their own ways of doing things.


Ally my friends think I am a nice guy (no joke)