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28 Jan 2014, 11:01 am

So I think that one major problem with aspie dating is not understanding how to properly flirt or being afraid to do so. I'm not that great myself. However If you just do it it becomes easier.

So flirt with the person above you! try a pickupline, say something nice, write a love poem, go nuts!

If someone else wants to make suggestions that would be great.

Oh Wrongplanet, you're such a good listener! Has anyone ever told you that green and blue theme looks great on you?


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28 Jan 2014, 11:34 am

I would, but you already suspect me of stalking you. ;) :lol:



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28 Jan 2014, 11:46 am

So, your avatar kinda looks like Amy Farrah Fowler, and I think I'm in need of a medical tricorder scan. Obviously, these are done in skimpy nurse outfits, for purely logical reasons.



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28 Jan 2014, 12:01 pm

Is that a gun in your hand, or are you just happy to see me?


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28 Jan 2014, 1:38 pm

You've got a lovely profile picture. :)


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28 Jan 2014, 2:26 pm

You have great taste in cartoons! We must have the same style of humor.


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28 Jan 2014, 2:35 pm

You seem like a bright, warm person :P


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28 Jan 2014, 2:36 pm

Your bulb sure looks HOT!

EDIT: Lilya ninjaed me, apparently. Good job :wink:


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28 Jan 2014, 3:38 pm

Hola Acabo de esta realidad, pero usted busca mucho al igual que mi próximo novio.
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(I just realized this, but you look a lot like my next boyfriend)



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28 Jan 2014, 4:21 pm

I had wondered why it was such a dark night but now I understand, the moon must have gifted you its light in an attempt to win your heart.


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28 Jan 2014, 4:27 pm

Awwe, are those flowers for me?



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28 Jan 2014, 4:30 pm

salamandaqwerty: *blink, blink* Damn, that one was so good I felt it from here. :D


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28 Jan 2014, 5:46 pm

Something I'd like to point out:

Some of us don't have a problem with the "how" with flirting. It's the "When is it appropriate?" part that I personally have a problem with.


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28 Jan 2014, 8:00 pm

People like different things. I would throw up if someone said something normally considered romantic( eg qwerty's flirty above that seems to be right up mouthyb's street, lucky them).

You have to tailor your flirts to the person even when you don't know them. It has to be personalised otherwise it just sounds contrite.

^ I think you've got my number.



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28 Jan 2014, 9:27 pm

Great job of synthesizing your photo, leafy! ;)



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28 Jan 2014, 10:26 pm

"Hey baby, are you my pinky toe? Cuz I know that sooner or later I'm gonna bang you on my coffee table."

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Sorry, jk! That pickup line just makes me laugh so hard!


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