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03 Mar 2014, 11:28 am

To continue on from previous thread http://www.wrongplanet.net/postt253289.html

What do you think the girl I rejected would 'think' if she knew that for the past 5-6 years I have deeply been regretting my actions all that time ago?


Just take some guesses :)



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03 Mar 2014, 7:31 pm

She would probably think that's sweet and that it's a tad bit creepy.



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03 Mar 2014, 10:14 pm

So contact her... It's the only way you will ever find out. (but don't be surprised if she is married with kids etc.)



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04 Mar 2014, 12:40 pm

NinsMom wrote:
So contact her... It's the only way you will ever find out. (but don't be surprised if she is married with kids etc.)


yeah no, he said she is living with her fiance - I would be creeped out by anyone coming after me while in a relationship, if she were known to be single it might be nice, not anymore


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04 Mar 2014, 5:19 pm

Based on my experiene, this is something I would have to let go. Better off leaving this to a high school reunion or some other kind of chance meeting down the road where you can say something like "Call me crazy, but I had the biggest crush on you in high school."


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05 Mar 2014, 7:26 am

Well, she's got a fiance. The likely scenario is she was over it and not thinking about it at all within 2 weeks. :?


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06 Mar 2014, 10:00 pm

GivePeaceAChance wrote:
NinsMom wrote:
So contact her... It's the only way you will ever find out. (but don't be surprised if she is married with kids etc.)


yeah no, he said she is living with her fiance - I would be creeped out by anyone coming after me while in a relationship, if she were known to be single it might be nice, not anymore


Sorry! Wrong Advice! I must have missed the "Living with fiance" part. :oops: Nope. Don't contact her.



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09 Mar 2014, 5:54 pm

NinsMom wrote:
GivePeaceAChance wrote:
NinsMom wrote:
So contact her... It's the only way you will ever find out. (but don't be surprised if she is married with kids etc.)


yeah no, he said she is living with her fiance - I would be creeped out by anyone coming after me while in a relationship, if she were known to be single it might be nice, not anymore


Sorry! Wrong Advice! I must have missed the "Living with fiance" part. :oops: Nope. Don't contact her.


Tried to add her as friend on Facebook but she did not reply



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09 Mar 2014, 6:08 pm

You can't correct the mistakes of the past, let it go.