Where have all the good men gone?

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Interesting question.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kRikFf7rSeI[/youtube]

Someone obviously needs to tell her about this forum.

so shes just looking for a guy to pay for her stuff? pass

its 2014 not 1930s why do we still have to pay for everything? because they were born with a vagina?
not to say I haven't payed for stuff, but to just expect a guy to pay hundred of dollars for you when you probably won't even be around tomorrow is a bit much.

her type of guy died with economy.

She has to be one of the most superficial and egocentric people I've seen in a while.

And I completely agree with sly279 on this one. In the past, the reason men paid for dates and such...was because women weren't really allowed to work, and hence had no money! Nowadays, women make essentially the same and many times more than their male counterparts, so the tradition no longer serves a purpose.

Yeah, she needs to make a video about this thread.

I would certainly not buy any dinner for this one.

What a babe ! ! How can i meet her ???

Her voice sounds like cats mating.

"Do men have dealbreakers?" Yeah, I do. A rant like this would be a dealbreaker.

Furthermore, comparing a $700 tab that someone else had to this apparently bad experience about having to pay for her share of a date isn't really a fair comparison.

This seems to be a common theme among the ladies.

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Px3oyl6LEso[/youtube]

Another varieties of this whining: All men in my area suck, I can't find a good man!

Send her a $2000 gift card and she'll come to you.

You know what that can often mean: "I just can't recognize good men when I see them." or "I don't in my heart of hearts even care for good men." We haven't "gone anywhere". There are plenty of men out there that are incredibly self sacrificial, kind, hard working, and sensitive that don't receive any recognition whatsoever for it from females.

Some of the comments on youtube:

But hey, some WP users are like her and might get offended.

If I actually had the confidence to ask a woman out, I would most definitely be a "nice guy". I am sick of seeing all these "bad boys" who use their machismo to pick up girls, and end up treating them like crap afterwards. Even though some people regard this as an outdated, "sexist" attitude, I honestly believe that chivalry is not dead, and that women deserve to be treated with respect. This means lending them your coat when it's cold, paying for meals, taking things slowly with intimacy, and just generally being a "knight in shining armor". I'm sure there are a lot of women out there who would appreciate guys with this attitude nowadays, especially since it's a refreshing change of pace from the whole "bad boy" thing.

And hey, what's more confusing that a girl suggesting to split the bill is probably testing you, this behavior is no guarantee that she's being egalitarian.

It happened to me, she *insisted* to pay her order, on several dates (I insisted to pay all when I invite her) and turned out that she believes that guys who accept to split the bill are cheapskates (by making up a hint story about a debate with her friends, but yes, that what deep down she believed).