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ArrantPariah
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20 Mar 2014, 7:33 pm

She raises some good points

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKLwtQ3T3c4[/youtube]

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20 Mar 2014, 9:38 pm

why can't people just be real?

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21 Mar 2014, 6:06 pm

Here's why

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aM3Ka1PdOKQ[/youtube]

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21 Mar 2014, 8:56 pm

Very good points. She has a series of tutorials.

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21 Mar 2014, 9:26 pm

"Women are attracted to two types of guys"

And we are viewing her as qualified to be giving advice because...?

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21 Mar 2014, 10:53 pm

Deuterium wrote:

"Women are attracted to two types of guys"

And we are viewing her as qualified to be giving advice because...?

Are you dating anyone?

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22 Mar 2014, 12:57 am

thewhitrbbit wrote:

Are you dating anyone?

No, nor would I given the opportunity right now. And the answer to my question?

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22 Mar 2014, 1:29 am

Deuterium wrote:

"Women are attracted to two types of guys"

And we are viewing her as qualified to be giving advice because...?

She has a webcam and YouTube account. Surely this makes her a sage provider of unfathomable wisdom!

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22 Mar 2014, 11:20 am

TheGoggles wrote:

Deuterium wrote:

"Women are attracted to two types of guys"

And we are viewing her as qualified to be giving advice because...?

She has a webcam and YouTube account. Surely this makes her a sage provider of unfathomable wisdom!

ROFLMAO! This is why certain people should be banned from using the internet (including religious fundamentalists and people who dispute the validity of the moon landings)

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22 Mar 2014, 11:23 am

How is it that the vast majority of humanity seems to fall into one of two boxes...? If I were a woman and had to choose between some nice guy pansy and some sexy dickhead, I'd choose the vibrator.

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22 Mar 2014, 2:15 pm

She actually sounds like a sweet and kind intentioned lady.

However, I knew a lot of what she was talking about already before watching that video. I can say that she is pretty spot on with the some of the comments and her comments do hold truth to it.

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22 Mar 2014, 3:27 pm

ArrantPariah wrote:

Here's why

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aM3Ka1PdOKQ[/youtube]

it's all a goddamned game. it makes me want to avoid the whole human race.

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22 Mar 2014, 4:53 pm

The woman is an attractive and personable woman. Because of that,and the nature of her blog, it would be strange if she did not know what she and other attractive women [who of course discuss men a lot] found attractive in a man. Also, so many women have questioned themselves and their friends over and over and over again about WHY so many good women fall for "bad boys." This woman is one who has discovered that what makes the 'bad boy" so attractive isn't his "badness" so much as his confidence and other traits that are not found only in bad boys.

I am not sure why so many guys here are ripping apart this woman's opinions. If every woman you meet falls in love with you, instead of tearing this girl apart, why not share some of your great wisdom?

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22 Mar 2014, 6:24 pm

^ i should make a wisdom-sharing video titled "What the f*****g is wrong with women on youtube lately?".

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22 Mar 2014, 6:52 pm

There should really be distinction between nice guys and Nice Guys (TM) (as explained by the speaker if you watched the video). Women don't always reject the latter type of guy because they'd rather have a Bad Boy (TM). They reject them because there's a point where the niceness no longer seems like genuine niceness. It comes across as manipulation. Its actually pushy and patronizing to try to make someone like you. They have to be allowed to choose for themselves.

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22 Mar 2014, 7:24 pm

marshall wrote:

No, the speaker was saying that the genuine nice guys should do things that bad guys do to trigger attraction (pua-like stuff, teasing, body language) and by acquiring those typical 'bad boys'-skills they evolve to Great Guys.

You obviously didn't get the point of the video.

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