Do most women on WP hate men?

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25 Mar 2014, 11:20 pm

:lol: Of course not! Yeah I know I made some broad generalizations in the past with such broad generalizingly silly questions and have come to conclusion that some do and some don't. When some that do it is not all the time but just temporary times the ones who permanently hate men are in the minority. Same goes for those who hate women some that do and some that don't but I suppose it is easy to conclude that most of either sex hates each other but that makes it too easy and is not really true at all. Hate is a hurtful thing we all as people receive hate from others, sometimes we get paranoid and afraid but need not assume all people are hateful, not all people are monsters out to destroy us, beat us abuse us or con us. It is easy to admit we do not need each other to be complete but in the end at times maybe we wonder if we are lying to ourselves, there are times we feel need someone to talk to about feelings when we feel need it someone to comfort or be comforted by and someones shoulder to cry on. Maybe after a while that feeling is loneliness and certain times a human companion is needed that pets cannot provide. People get bitter and upset and deep down inside they are hurting inside or afraid due to the past but need to learn to love themselves and move forward and give people a chance in order to seek happyness.


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26 Mar 2014, 2:13 am

No, nor do I think most men on WP hate women.



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26 Mar 2014, 6:12 am

No, I don't hate men.
unfortunately though I have met a whole bunch of aggressive, intolerant and stupid men. We have to fight the tendency of generalization and black-and-white thinking! I understand that sometimes it is hard, specially when for instance you get to know sexist, abusive and other sick men (which are not just a few by the way)



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26 Mar 2014, 8:38 am

I don't hate men

I just refuse to be disrespected by them


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26 Mar 2014, 8:57 am

GivePeaceAChance wrote:
I don't hate men

I just refuse to be disrespected by them


I think a lot of us guys are guilty of thinking women hate men when really they are just doing this. Especially as autistic men are not immune to the misogynistic attitudes prevalent in most of society. Although I would argue that we probably have them in the same amount as non-autistic guys but they're more socially adept at either hiding them, or using them to an advantage. Also some of us cling to the idea that someone being autistic means that even if male-privilege were a thing we suddenly don't have it because we're autistic, which is nonsense. It just means we should look at how we are treated verses our direct peers (so if you're a straight white working class autistic man, you should look at straight white working class autistic women rather than another group because groups you're a part of play a part in how power dynamics play out).



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26 Mar 2014, 9:11 am

I think hating men or women either one is silly. Statistically, the majority of both suck. /hating men or women is pointless when its people in general who are the problem.



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26 Mar 2014, 10:50 am

I don't hate women I mean yeah I say some rough and tough stuff sometimes but no I'm not misogynistic in no way. If any kind of woman comes up and talks to me in public or on here I'm not gonna verbally attack them. Lol
I mean we live on the same planet after all. Its bound to happen that we'll temporarily can't stand eachother--I mean haven't you lived with men/women before? It can get hostile sometimss. I think in terms of dating yeah people can get cold towards the other sex.


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26 Mar 2014, 4:08 pm

EMTkid wrote:
I think hating men or women either one is silly. Statistically, the majority of both suck. /hating men or women is pointless when its people in general who are the problem.


Heh.

I second this.

To the OP: you rock AspieOtaku!! I certainly don't hate men, but I definitely think you're one of the good ones. :D


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27 Mar 2014, 3:02 am

We should all just hate everyone equally. Why play favorites it cuts down on your pool of potential people to hate.


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27 Mar 2014, 9:49 am

I think WP men are more bitter towards women than vise versa.



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27 Mar 2014, 1:08 pm

thewhitrbbit wrote:
I think WP men are more bitter towards women than vise versa.
I think its because we act more childish sorry I had to admit it.


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27 Mar 2014, 3:14 pm

I love men, but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to all of them. Most of them I just enjoy as people, not as potential romantic partners.

So guess what kind of man I'm most attracted to? The kind of man who can enjoy most women as people, not as potential romantic partners.

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27 Mar 2014, 4:59 pm

I don't hate men.I think there are quite a few good ones on this site,and a few that may be bitter.Maybe from past bad relationships.Who knows.I've had bad relationships,but I'm not going to judge all men on the bad behavior of a few.


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27 Mar 2014, 6:37 pm

I find some of the men on WP quite appealing. :D


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27 Mar 2014, 6:45 pm

^ I used to have a crush on one, but then it turned out he has Aspergers 8O



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27 Mar 2014, 6:53 pm

Wafflemarine wrote:
We should all just hate everyone equally. Why play favorites it cuts down on your pool of potential people to hate.


You could try being empathetic and realise that hate is through negative or bitter experiences which has caused that person to put their guard up.

Hatred only begets more hatred, hatred is baggage.