Have I been friend zoned?

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15 Apr 2014, 6:21 pm

If one has gone out with a guy twice, and chats with him online regularly , and the guy says he plans to go speed dating, while suggesting that one could try speed dating, could that be a form of friendzoning?

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15 Apr 2014, 6:37 pm

Sounds as if this guy is interested in checking out his options and isn't really that interested in you, or doesnt want a commitment.

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15 Apr 2014, 7:21 pm

DeeLerious184 wrote:

It's a let down gently technique. If you're interested in someone you don't bring up dating. I do it all the time with guys I don't want to date.

It's a dead give away when someone tells you to date other people that they aren't interested.

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15 Apr 2014, 7:37 pm

Thank to all for responding. I decided to ask him directly.

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15 Apr 2014, 7:45 pm

he had given me reason to believe that he wanted to give things a chance by ''starting over ' after a few bumps, misunderstandings and other issues. ( we are both aspies)

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15 Apr 2014, 10:35 pm

Turns out that I was not being friendzoned.

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16 Apr 2014, 12:32 am

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OSwsJtSfyXU[/youtube]Ive friend zoned women.

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16 Apr 2014, 1:07 am

DeeLerious184 wrote:

Turns out that I was not being friendzoned.

Funny way of showing it :/

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16 Apr 2014, 6:30 am

DeeLerious184 wrote:

Turns out that I was not being friendzoned.

Congratulations!

When I first saw the thread title, my first thought was, "If you have to ask, the answer is YES."

And then I realized you're a woman talking about a man. Just from what I've seen, you are inherently unable to be "friendzoned." This is a phenomenon that can only happen to guys.

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16 Apr 2014, 10:36 am

Thanks again to all who replied. It was an odd thing to say, in my view, regarding double dating.

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