"Howdy, how was your weekend?
I noticed on your profile you like photography. I also like photography - I personally like to take pictures of nature and animals. Do you do that as a hobby, or is it a job too? What kind of photography do you enjoy most?"
That's something I usually go with, I pick something from their profile that we have in common, but dating sites just don't work, so I gave up.
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Your Aspie score: 187 of 200
Your neurotypical (non-autistic) score: 25 of 200
AQ: 43
Empathy Quotient: 8
I have ASD, ADHD, Hypermobility Syndrome.