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Boys and girls are 6 basic needs in love. Boy: trust, acceptance, appreciation, admiration, approval, encouragement. Girl: caring, understanding, respect, loyalty, considerate, comfort.Everyone has a story left untold, so never start judging someone.Why are all the men love judge people by outward appearance?Why can't they see the essence through ordinary appearance in the industrious and brave, wise and nice?White boiling water the girl is this is the legendary, can moisten the people but not attractive?

I've always known I was male on the inside. It seems that I need the same things as a boy does.

You might have it right with the basic needs but most of us go far beyond that. As for guys considering outward appearance first that unfortunately is the way our minds are programmed to behave, although breaking that programming is possible. Human beings are visual creatures and whilst the guys look for a beautiful woman with a great body (to bear his children) women look for a big strong man who can support them and, in past times, hunt for food.

There is however a myth that all men are attracted to tall blue-eyed blondes with big chests and it ain't true. I can't be the only guy out there who prefers short brunettes and redheads just make me go weak at the knees.

Like above said, because visual attraction is a big part of both men's and women's natural biology. However, sometimes people do value personality over appearance.