Far last little while, I have been trying reverse my fortunes in terms of relationships and in the process, I have learned alot about myself in the process. After having a talk with a good friend, I think I found the root cause as to why I have not been able to find my mate. I have become too 'robotic' in the way do things, have little emotion and I don't 'go with the flow'. I am not like most people and I am proud of being an individual and being an aspie but I have been debating as to changing certain aspects of myself in order to find that special someone.
I keep interpreting love and relationships as puzzle to solve but I have been running a fools errand. i may never know the answer but I will still trug along.