Being Creepy

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Not exactly a love and dating issue, but trust me, it's not just guys who get called creepy.

Just wanted to re-enforce that.

I got called creepy again today.

Your avatar picture is super-creepy

AND she has a job as a Walrus.
In New Zealand no less. Are there even walruses in New Zealand? Maybe that's why they have to hire people to do it, I dunno.

I guess walruses (walrusii? walrii?) aren't really creepy, more of floppy, I reckon.

This made me giggle.

And OP, maybe some girls like creepy.

Now that's just even creepier...

The last thing I want is girls liking my creepiness. How strange.

Creepy OP, creepy avatar.

Even my avatar is less creepy than hers!

How were you feeling at the time (just before you were called creepy)? Were you having a rough day?

I haven't noticed any walruses here so far! We have a few human "dinosaurs" here though (LOL).

No I said something pretty creepy to a guy at work. But he has a decent sense of humour, I thought he would be cool with it. Bad judgement.

Oh. Fun stuff when a joke goes the wrong way. Makes me think of that eccentric woman in that movie Under the Tuscan Sun, something about enjoying embarrassing moments. Can't remember the quote exactly.

Remove the word "is" from your vocabulary and all other forms of the verb "to be." That should clarify your thinking and perceptions. It will change being creepy into people feeling uncomfortable with your presentation, for starters.

eh, saying something creepy in an office setting wouldnt make me think that person is creepy, guy or girl.

But ya, I went on a few dates with a girl who would text me anytime I went to the bathroom with little cutsie stuff like "you're looking so handsome tonight." I'm all for little things like that being said, but texting me it when you know I likely got my junk in my hand taking a piss was more creepy than cute!

I once called a girl creepy, and another girl standing with me, who I am pretty sure was also an aspie, got upset over it.

Being called creepy and weird is probably one of the more upsetting things you could say to an aspie.

This is interesting. I've watched some of your YouTube videos and seen some of you photos (fotos for Europeans) and I see nothing creepy. From my perspective, NT women often seem contrived and theatrical, when presenting themselves. To me, most autistic women seem pristinely feminine, and NT women come across as layered in something artificial. NT women always seem distant. I'm suspicious the guy who called you "creepy" is using a relative perspective, rather than speaking about some absolute characteristic or behavior. In my experience, "creepy" is usually a manifestation of perception, rather than projection. And, the accusation of being "creepy" is an attempt to hold the accused responsible for the accusers feelings and perceptions.

BTW, you look really cute in cat makeup. The next time you make a cat video, please consider forming your hands into paws - that would be extra cute.