How do I be myself around my crush?

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MonsterGuy
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19 May 2014, 7:41 am

How? I keep overthinking everything.



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20 May 2014, 8:42 am

If you can't be yourself around your crush, she'll remain to being nothing but your crush, at best.



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20 May 2014, 11:32 pm

MonsterGuy wrote:
How? I keep overthinking everything.


tell more, OP.
do you rehearse what you're going to say in your head before you me, only to completely forget about them when you do meet up?

do you believe that if you do act yourself, she will think differently of you? putting up a facade?



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21 May 2014, 12:41 pm

I think that I'll end up scaring her away, and that I'll get disappointed when I worry about it because I work so hard to impress her, and I can't, making me worry even more.



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21 May 2014, 2:42 pm

Just be yourself, go with the flow there's no need to make your crush think you're something else; if you over think it you may end up messing up more than if you didn't.

The worst she can say is no.